Andy Cohen was a guest on fashion designer Isaac Mizrahi’s iHeartPodcast, ‘Hello Isaac’ recently. The conversations turned intimate.
“Asking for a friend,” Mizrahi asked the Watch What Happens Live host. “Are you a top or a bottom?”
Cohen did not hesitate to fire back, “I’m a top”.
Mizrahi appeared shocked at Cohen’s blunt and speedy response.
“You’re a top! That was really an easy answer for you,” Mizrahi replied.
“Because the answer was readily available,” Cohen responded. He then went on to suggest he wishes he were more versatile.
“I wish that I could… I need to loosen up, as they say,” Cohen clarified.
Watch the exchange below.
If you want to listen to the whole conversation, you can check out the podcast (the question about “top or bottom” is at the 5’20” mark).
A rude question?
When shared online, some questioned whether it was rude to ask a celebrity about their preferred sexual position.
Back in 2019, Troya Sivan expressed unhappiness when a journalist asked him a similar question.
“I thought about asking the interviewer about his absolute fave sex position after that last question,” Sivan tweeted following an interview. “But then I remembered how wildly invasive, strange and inappropriate that would be. Didn’t stop him though!”
On Instagram, one person said, “Isaac, this question is beneath you. And I adore you. Gosh, is anything sacred anymore?”
Another concurred: “Have to agree this was not a great question. Keep it classy!”
However, others pointed out that Cohen could easily have declined to answer.
“Oh, ffs, all these pearl clutchers who are put off by the question make me 🙄. Yes, people have sex. And some people actually gasp talk about it. The idea that it should be taboo is so ridiculous to me. Andy obviously didn’t mind. And if he did, he’s perfectly capable of declining to answer.”
One woman said we have a good idea of what heterosexual people do in bed. She went so far as to suggest it was homophobic to ask gay people to refrain from talking about their sex lives.
“Why is this information so shocking and distasteful to people? We know with cisgender people in some fashion unless they are creative. Seems homophobic to me. As a cisgender woman, this question did not offend me in the least.”
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Diplomat
Ha! I guessed he was a window shattering bottom.
inbama
Living proof that self-identity is nonsense.
MikeM
He had said that years ago. Well, Anderson Cooper said on WWHL that he was surprised that Cohen was a top.
jcool
the next question should have been “how big is it?”
isn’t that what we want to know about tops?
ZzBomb
Wasn’t this already known information? Am I missing something here?
Mr. Stadnick
taste?
jcool
i imagine it tastes like most other d*cks
bachy
The reason we don’t ask intimate questions about sex is the same reason we don’t have sex on the traffic meridian on a busy street. It’s because some things are best kept private: between oneself and one’s sexual partner.
If you are a porn actor or the type of person who enjoys sexual activity on a traffic meridian, then privacy is probably irrelevant.
Man About Town
Exactly what I was thinking. Unless you’re dating a particular man, why would you ask him what his preferred sexual positions are?
Also, I’m waiting for someone — anyone! — to answer that question with “Why are you assuming I ever do anything anal?”
LumpyPillows
Poor Isaac…this is what he does now? Being an insufferable diva has its downside, I guess.
Andy a top? Seems right to me.
M K
Just because that’s what he says doesn’t make it true…
305Ghuy
As my momma would say, “You can ask anything you like, just be prepared for the answer you get.”
SDR94103
oh girl, get real. LOL
gcmbeach
Guess I just like my tops to be more butch. OMG I cannot believe I said that. Am so ashamed. Sorry Andy Cohen. You’re so handsome, brilliant and funny. My butt needs to rethink everything now. Scientist’s say our second brain exists around that zone.
305Ghuy
“Tell the truth and shame the devil.”
dccuate
Oh, Christ, can he just go away. He’s one of the most unoriginal and unfunny celebrities ever. His vapid work has dropped the collective American IQ at least 20 points.
jcool
well, i feel smarter after reading your post. thanks
inbama
Maybe he should marry Perez Hilton.
It would make them both twice as annoying.
305Ghuy
Back in the day on South Beach they used to say “Butch in the streets, fem in the sheets. A buff, bearded, brawny-man daddy may not look like a bottom; and the lithe ballet-dancing/club kid on the weekends will bend you over the furniture despite your contrary fantasy.
You just never know what someone desires in an intimate setting.
Tad
Seems to me Anderson Cooper already shared this info a year or two ago about his buddy Andy. He really gets off on being a total top, apparently. But what I don’t like about this whole question is why it has to be asked in the first place? And secondly, as a “side”, or an oral-only guy, it seems to me that the question itself is stereotypical in itself. Not all gay guys are tops or bottoms or versatile. Some don’t engage in anal sex at all and have a satisfying sex life. Wish there was more awareness and acceptance of us gay guys who don’t even relate to the top/bottom question. There are millions of us. Trust me.
cuteguy
Wasn’t this info aka lie, already stated?
inbama
You can tell the top in any relationship by his shorter fingernails.
humancobras666
he’s annoying. the question isn’t rude if it’s asked by someone you know it just being silly and not with bad intentions.
Jon in Canada
Sure Jan
GayEGO
How about Andy being a bot-top! We never hear about that!