
And no, this isn’t the fun kind of gay sex slave. At just 15 years old, an Ugandan man by the name of “John” was outed at school for being gay. In a country that actively advocates for killing queer folks, he was promptly expelled.
(Honestly, getting off kind of easy, considering the penalties that country implements on gays.)
“I was often threatened and harassed by other people,” he tells The Daily Record. “Being homosexual in Uganda was forbidden and anyone exposed could face imprisonment and torture.”
But little did John know at the time, his troubles were only just beginning.
How John became a gay sex slave
Even though John was kicked out of school, he still managed to obtain a degree in IT. After school, he even landed a decent paying job. Until his employer found out he was gay and fired him.
“After I lost my job, I moved back with my mother, but rumors spread and our neighbors started harassing my mother,” he explains. “One night, someone set fire to our house and my mother died inside. As if this was not heartbreaking enough for me, the rest of our family blamed me for her death and disowned me.”
Terrified and alone, John reached out to a friend for help, who put him in touch with a man in Scotland who said he could help obtain a visa for John and secure him a job.
In October 2013, John sold his car and flew to Edinburgh. He thought the nightmare was finally coming to an end. In truth, it was only just beginning.
Where the terror began
“From the airport I was taken to a flat where I saw some other men,” he explains. “I was locked in a room by myself and was only allowed out for 30 minutes a day to cook myself something to eat. [John had] no phone, TV, keys or contact with the other people staying at the flat.”
“I was kept like this for a month when one day a white man in his 40s came and said he could help me,” John continues. “I was told to take all my belongings and go with him.”
John was too terrified to protest. He gathered his things and followed the man to his car. The two drove for a while before the man stopped the vehicle and demanded John perform a sex act on him. When John refused, the man flew into a rage. That’s when the young Ugandan learned he had been purchased as a sex slave.
“He got very angry shouting that he’d paid money for me,” John explains. “He tried to get into the back of the car where I was sitting but I managed to get out and ran away. I was completely lost and slept rough that night.”
John’s happy ending
After fleeing the man’s car, John eventually found refuge through Migrant Help, an organization dedicated to assisting human trafficking victims. They helped John file a police report and navigate though the asylum process so he could start rebuilding his life.
“I constantly thank Migrant Help for their help and support,” John says, “both mental and financial. I call my key adviser my ‘lucky mascot.’ My life has changed so much.”
John’s story serves as a stark reminder of the challenges many LGBTQ+ individuals endure around the world. Stay updated on important news stories like these when you subscribe to the Queerty newsletter. Together, we can amplify voices and promote change.
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Bobby Crone
Wow
Bruce Dillon
DISLIKE! SCARY!
(*;*()
Justin Michael Hollon
So he wasnt a sex slave, but almost one.
Eli Grove
Same
Billy Budd
Do these things really happen in the developed world? Still? How come?
bottom250
I am so in tears reading this. What a sweetheart who deserved better.
Blackceo
@Billy Budd:
I have a friend who works for the FBI and deals specifically with human sex trafficking. People have NO idea how huge this problem is. It is the fastest growing crime and only second overall to drugs, and they often go hand in hand. Most social service agencies have a human trafficking policy in place, typically for when the FBI conducts a sting, recovers a minor, and that minor needs to be sheltered. In another life I would probably go into doing that work because it fascinates me. I am constantly asking my friend about it.
jwtraveler
I’m glad the story has a happy ending. Unfortunately for many other victims of human trafficking there is not happy ending.
Captain Obvious
It’s crazy how many people think this doesn’t happen, especially to men… Plenty of white males are sold into sex slavery, but for some reason white sex slavery is kept hush hush to the point you really would think it didn’t exist.
Thanks to the internet it’s pretty much worse than ever.
Blackceo
@Captain Obvious:
Yeah it’s pretty bad. Marginalized groups are most at risk. LGBT population, refugees, undocumented persons, runaway youth, the poor. Geographically, there are various factors. Urban areas are popular because typically they have multiple modes of transportation, an international airport and easy entry and exit access points with highways. The Super Bowl is one of the most high sex trafficking events. Lots of Feds are there on sting operations and looking for indications of trafficking. But, other big sporting events and/or special events period raises the likelihood of trafficking to occur in higher numbers.
My friend (Fed) told me that one time he busted an operation in his own neighborhood. He had taken extended leave from work and liked to go to this Chinese restaurant for lunch often. Well, he began to notice that every time he went into the restaurant there were always new servers, bus boys, cash register attendants. So he became suspicious and sure enough it was a sort of depot stop for trafficking victims. They had the victims sleeping on mattresses in the basement and were essentially using them for free labor and preparing them to work for those who bought them for free or cheap as hell labor and sex slavery. And he lives in a pretty decent area. It’s scary. Funny not funny but I do find myself paying attention to that now whenever I go to my usual eateries to make sure Im not noticing that the staff isn’t frequently new faces. Whenever there is a new staff person Im like “who are you? where you from?” It definitely makes me wonder if I’ve ever come into contact with someone at a restaurant like that who is actually a trafficking victim.
Tino Sanchez
Glad he has escaped. Human Trafficking is one of the largest kept secret crimes because it occurs everywhere and is huge. Do your research. Save a life.
Captain Obvious
@Blackceo: I remember reading about a woman who met a guy online on a dating site and ended up being held captive in his house and raped for months. It’s crazy how rampant this stuff is and how easy it is for them to get away with it if the person doesn’t know enough people to notice something is wrong.
I once had a guy(security guard) keep making a claim that I was homeless when I was in the hospital(in Los Angeles of all places) and saying he was going to have me taken to some facility. Dunno where he was going with that, but you can never tell with people nowadays. My apartment address was given and he somehow “lost” my paperwork and kept acting like I was under arrest or something… in a hospital! Someone also paid for my hospital expenses… no joke, no exaggeration. It was my first trip to any hospital in my life so I didn’t know that none of this was standard at the time, my family later told me that nothing in the hospital is paid for by the government(which is what I was told at the time). Before I was released the next morning that same security guard kept trying to force me to drink this cup of water I didn’t ask for, then goes around the corner and says “I offered but he keeps saying no.” to someone nearby and he sounded afraid because he couldn’t get me to drink it. Kinda wish I took it and splashed it in his face.
Such an odd experience I packed my bags and left Los Angeles the next morning. I don’t know what was the end goal or what was going on but I got he hell out of there before anything could happen. It’s nearing the point where you can’t trust anyone anymore.
Sex slavery is really the lower end of the things people do with captured individuals. The reason I can’t watch awful movies like Hostel is it’s way too close to reality… one that people often ignore because they think it’s too unbelievable to be true. The big tip off for me that I was probably in trouble in LA was that whole “he’s homeless thing” and “he probably gave a fake address”. They were laying it on thick trying to have an excuse to take me somewhere when I admitted myself to the hospital and he was just a security guard but acting like some sort of officer who had arrested me when I had done nothing wrong.
My family even told me that when they called the first few times they kept saying no one by my name was admitted to the hospital and that I didn’t have a room there. When my mother demanded to speak to me and threatened them with legal action they finally connected her to a phone that wasn’t even the phone in my room. Then she had to demand they connect her to my private line. Someone was seriously trying hard to make it seem like I didn’t exist and had never been admitted yet they held me in that room for 13 hours overnight.
Being a country kid from the south I had never experienced anything like that before and I’m glad it didn’t go any further.
Zodinsbrother
@Blackceo: Yep, the link between drugs and human exploitation and murder is very strong. Anyone who buys illegal narcotics shares in the guilt for fuding this kind of stuff and millions of other atrocities across the developing world.
Alex Rothwell
What a horrible ordeal. My heart goes out to him. There are so many more like him with awful stories. Many I’m sure weren’t unable to get away.
Cam
He should sue the U.S. preachers who have made it their goal to make Uganda as hostile as possible to gays.
I’m glad he escaped, poor man, losing his mother, his family and then that.
onthemark
@Zodinsbrother: I’ll rephrase your statement:
Anyone who doesn’t help end Prohibition and the idiotic drug war shares in the guilt for funding this kind of stuff and millions of other atrocities across the developing world. There, that’s better.
Paco
@Captain Obvious: maybe they wanted your kidneys.
Captain Obvious
@Paco: No idea really, could’ve been anything. Was a pretty strange ordeal… the type of thing you read or hear about Los Angeles but think would never happen to you.
I’ve heard people pull the same type of thing with life insurance policies and all sorts of other things.
Really taught me to stop running from my family though, being in places where no one knows you isn’t really safe anymore.
Bisexual-Transwoman
@Blackceo: That is very true.
Mykey
@Billy Budd: Yes they do, come out of your bubble!