As we enter into the roaring ’20s, Queerty is looking back on the last 10 years of culture in our “Decade of Decadence” series. We’ve seen an explosion in queer representation in film and TV, music, politics, and on social media. We’ve grown more aware of intersectionality, gender identity, and sexual fluidity and we’ve seen major social and political advancements across the globe. It’s been wild, wonderful decade, and we can hardly wait to see what the next one has in store.
Marriage equality, the right to serve in the military, the increased visibility of transgender people have raised awareness and emboldened queer people all over the world. Even the setbacks of the Trump community can’t hold back the wave of cinematic awareness.
Not coincidentally, the 2010s have also seen an explosion of characters and storylines in the movies, keeping pace with the community it depicts. So which fabulous feature films will be forever remembered as classics?
Have a look at our picks for the best cinema of the decade.
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Honorable mentions: The Miseducation of Cameron Post, A Fantastic Woman, Pain & Glory, GBF, Saturday Church, Scotty & the Secret History of Hollywood, Killing Patient Zero, Behind the Candelabra, Handsome Devils, Carol, The Favourite, Sauvage/Wild, Where’s My Roy Cohn?
10. Love, Simon
That Love, Simon—a studio film aimed at teenagers—actually exists is still something of a miracle. That it actually makes us laugh, swoon and get misty-eyed makes it one of our favorites of the past 10 years. If only high school love could be this fun in real life.
9. Vito
Director Jeffery Schwarz seems to have made it his life’s mission to document important passages of queer history on film. Though not as fun as some of his other outings, Vito, in a sense, explains Schwarz’s affinity, retelling the life of gay historian Vito Russo who made it his life’s mission to explore a history of queer images on film. It’s a meta-comment about the importance of preserving the history of our community and it’s heroes…and the importance of being one.
8. Boy Erased
Joel Edgerton wouldn’t seem like the kind of filmmaker to make a movie that captures the torture of conversion therapy in horrific detail. Nevertheless, Boy Erased does just that, while also portraying the desperate circumstances that can lead loving and rational families to subject their own to mental and physical cruelty. The movie didn’t quite get the love it deserved in 2018, overshadowed instead by more popcorn friendly films like Love, Simon and Bohemian Rhapsody. Yet a pill this bitter also contains tiny flickers of hope, and more importantly, forgiveness for those who would do us harm.
7. The Skin I Live In
Leave it to fearless filmmaker Pedro Almodovar to make a movie thick with camp humor…and utterly terrifying at the same time. The Skin I Live In is a movie best experienced rather than described, lest we spoil a symphony of disturbing plot twists. Suffice it to say Antonio Banderas leads the cast with a terrific performance, and as usual, Almodovar relishes silky, beautiful images rife with sensuality. Somehow, that only makes the movie even more horrifying.
6. Can You Ever Forgive Me?
Otherwise known as the queerest movie nobody actually noticed was actually queer, Can You Ever Forgive Me? also features two of the best performances of the decade by Melissa McCarthy and Richard E. Grant. The pair play a duo of scheming, alcoholic besties in a movie that is both hilarious and tragic, and which focuses on something few movies do: a friendship between a gay man and a gay woman. They may not be perfect, and in fact, may not even be good people. That does not make them any less fun to watch, or any less lovable.
5. How to Survive a Plague
The AIDS crisis remains one of the ugliest chapters in American history, and let’s face it, America has some very ugly chapters. How to Survive a Plague revisits the scourge in graphic detail, recounted by the activists that survived it. From government mockery to the religious persecution AIDS invited, the movie channels the righteous anger that helped galvanize a closeted culture into a full-blown community, one which would emerge from decimation into a role of leadership for a new century.
4. Tangerine
Made on an iPhone with an inexperienced, unknown cast on a shoestring budget, Tangerine wouldn’t seem like the kind of movie to earn a spot here. Yet few movies—queer or not—have the kind of uproarious humor of Tangerine, a story about transgender hookers on a rampage. But fast and hard as the laughs come, the movie pulls the rug out from its audience, body slamming it with plot twists tragic and uplifting. It’s artistic will at its most potent.
3. Call Me By Your Name
The movie that made us all crave apricots (or peaches, as the case may be) won our hearts not with sexual energy (which it has in abundance) but with heart-aching desire that so many of us know all too well. Call Me By Your Name benefits from a spellbinding performance by Timothee Chalamet who channels teenage angst just as well as intellectual brooding. By the time Chalamet’s Elio finally connects with Armie Hammer’s Oliver, the movie feels like it could explode, not with sexual tension, but with pure love and passion. Rarely are movies this sexy, or this bittersweet.
2. 5B
Not since Schindler’s List has a film offered antidote this potent to the pain and rage of mass death. That cure, incidentally, is love and compassion, as lived by those working in and around the world’s first AIDS ward. 5B chronicles the terror that accompanied the spread of the disease, the inaction and homophobia that let it become a holocaust. As politicians and preachers turned to LGBTQ people in pain and said “Go die. You deserve it,” the brave professionals of ward 5B at San Francisco General Hospital offered refuge, love and hope. 5B does more than call out villains and commend heroes. It inspires its viewers to rise up as better people.
1. Moonlight
What to say about a film that so perfectly encapsulates the queer experience? Love, passion, sexual discovery, coming out, rejection, eroticism, pain and connection: even some of the greatest films have less going for them. Moonlight plays all these notes with perfect balance while providing visuals of lush color and beauty. In the end, it leaves us much as it leaves its main characters: sitting on a beach, looking out at eternity, contemplating existence and above all, feeling alive.
ohiodude88
Carol, Blue Is the Warmest Colour, and BPM are a few omissions to name just a few.
ShiningSex
So true. Those are great films too!!!
BigJune
Very disappointed & kind of surprised (can I be both?) that the excellent British movie ‘God’s Own Country’ never made the list.
Set in northern England (miles away from London), a farmer’s son is angst ridden that he looks after the sheep on the family farm on his own.
Free workers movement in the European Community means his family take on a Romanian guy to help with the sheep.
Hidden sexuality & alcohol plus racism make the English guy a nasty piece of work, until one day…….
This movie was made with a low budget with limited release venues.
Had it played worldwide to an audience we would have been looking at a best movie Oscar with a nod to either in the lead or both.
I search the web for movies with a gay subject & occasionally you find an amazing movie.
When I saw this movie – I was filled with so much emotion I promised myself I would let other guys know that there is a quality movie that deserves to be watched.
If only one person reading this has a look & decides to watch this movie – then I have done my job.
I am nothing to do with the making or distribution of this film.
I knew when I watched Torchsong, Parting Glances, Boys in the Band – them type of movies, I know I had seen some important cinema, to that list and others I could add, I commend God’s Own Country as a quality gay movie.
I think you will enjoy it.
ShiningSex
I love that film!!! I was also disappointed not to see “Holding the Man”, “Out in the Dark”, and “The Man in an Orange Shirt” on the list.
BigJune
@ShiningSex – yes, totally agree, The Man in the Orange Shirt was both an amazing drama and sucker punched you into realising that we are close to that generation who had to hide their love.
Other film mentions also first class.
Glad I am not on my own in seeing God’s Own Country.
Merry Christmas, happy holidays.
MynameisSid
You’re right, excellent movie!
davidcoberly
A-men. Beautiful movie. Had me in tears more than once.
pugsandcoffeeplease
That movie was excellent.
TimothyBeauchamp
#1 “Holding The Man”
TimothyBeauchamp
#2 “God’s Own Country”
Riley
Agree totally that God’s Own Country is the best gay film of the decade!
lessthan
Weekend is in my top ten.
BigJune
Good reading comments.
Incidentally has anyone seen a French movie –
Hors Les Murs?
One of my favourite gay movies ever made, a proper love story. Beyond the Walls is the English translation.
It is in French, English subtitles – I watched it on a rainy Sunday afternoon and it made me forget about outside and I just cared about how I felt inside.
You won’t be disappointed.
David.
rob67
IMO the best gay themed movie ever has to be Shelter. Trevor Wright is excellent in this film and you truly feel all of his emotions with him.
MynameisSid
Shelter and shared rooms are both excellent, last decade, but latter days is one heartbreaking movie.
davidcoberly
I’ll never get over Latter Days. So under-rated!
rob67
Have to fully agree with you about Latter Days. Excellent movie and a lot of emotion in it especially at the end. ?
Jack
I haven’t seen every single movie on the list (I have seen most), but the omission of Weekend and God’s Own Country just make this list lose all credibility for me. Both are exquisite and certainly do more to advance queer cinema than Love, Simon. Josh O’Connell won a BAFTA for God’s Own Country.
And what about Beginners or Dallas Buyers Club, which at least deserves an honorable mention. Though they are not primarily gay themed, Christopher Plummer and Jered Leto gave Oscar Winning performances, both portraying transformative representations of rarely seen members of the community.
And in the decade where Amazon and Netflix disrupted the studio system forever, we should call HBO’s The Normal Heart the best movie of this decade.
Sorry. More thought should have gone into this list.
BigJune
The Normal Heart took me right back to the 80’s – I was weeping, angry and raging.
World wide epidemic was on us & the governments of here in the UK & the US pretended it didn’t exist.
Then the cnut (sic) Thatcher introduced Clause 28 so you could not talk about himosexuality, normalise it, tell school kids that your sexuality is your own, nothing is wrong.
That bitch & her government were responsible for massive homophobia & they turned their heads away when help was needed.
Blood on their hands.
BobinSF
I’ve seen all ten of these suggestions.
Without singling out which I’d remove, I would add these favorites of mine over the decade:
WEEKEND, The Way He Looks, God’s Own Country, End of the Century, Song Lang, Undertow. And these are just some of the ones I’d seen and loved at Frameline.