Ryan J. Haddad has a message for the world: He’s gay. He’s disabled. And he’s sexy as f*ck. And speaking of, ahem, f*cking, he wouldn’t mind doing some of that.
25-year-old Haddad is the subject of the first episode of Davey Wavey’s new digital series #ThisIsMe, which is a series that will feature “body image stories of gay men from across the spectrum of our community.”
Haddad has cerebral palsy and needs a walker to get around. He describes himself as a “hairy twink” not an otter (he doesn’t think he has quite enough hair to qualify as an otter) with nice legs and “a very respectable penis.”
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When he first started going out to gay clubs in his early 20s, Haddad had some rather awkward run-ins with other guys. Often they would look at him with sadness or pity. It took him several years to realize that those were their issues and that it had nothing to do with him.
“I realize [now] that I am good enough,” Haddad says. “Men just don’t have the knowledge or the understanding required to approach someone with a walker. … I’m sexy enough. I just need someone who is emotionally and mentally sexy enough to see that in me.”
We definitely see it! Do you?
Check out Haddad’s video below…
kurt_t
My spouse has CP. We’ve been together for… lemme do the math… 23 years. It’s a non issue for us. Or I guess it can be an issue in some trivial ways. People make funny assumptions. Once at the airport one of those TSA people took my boarding pass, because she assumed I was a caregiver who wasn’t going to get on the plane. Why a caregiver who wasn’t going to get on the plane would have a boarding pass, I have no idea.
Navalator
Damn. Why didn’t he take it all off? I am disappointed.
nitejonboy
That’s what I was thinking Navalator…TAKE IT OFF HOTTIE!!!
alanballs
He’s smart, cute, brave, sexy…..available and adorable.
BlackCare555
Stay at home mom Kelly Richards from New York after resigning from her full time job managed to average from $6000-$8000 a month from freelancing at home… This is how she done it
…….
???USA~JOB-START
Susskins
I have heard that Cerebral Palsy is the sexiest of the palsies. #ZachAnner
Ryan, you’re a hottie.
He BGB
Maybe guys are afraid they will hurt him or something? If he reassured me I wouldn’t be hurting him, hell, yeah! (If I was still sexually active which I’m not).
Heywood Jablowme
That’s a factor. If someone is unfamiliar with disabilities in general – at least with younger people – they might worry if the usual sex positions would hurt him.
“Men just don’t have the knowledge or the understanding required to approach someone with a walker.” Yeah, this is kind of a tough one; the only way to learn would be to talk to him, but a lot of guys are awkward in bars/clubs anyway.
sfcarlos65
I’ve cerebral palsy as well, I’ve been out for 30 years and I, too am sexy.
girldownunder
Good grief!!!!
Why wouldn’t any gay guy want to date this sweet man!!!
From, A lesbian.
Really: get your sh*t together guys, good grief!