Alexis Arquette Had Sex With Jared Leto While “Presenting As A Male”

alexis-arquette-jared-leto-sexAlexis Arquette confirmed that Jared Leto’s penis is “massive” in an interview with Jackie Beat for Frontiers earlier this month, alleging that she once “had sex with [him] back when [she] was presenting as a male.”

Arquette, made famous by dozens of supporting film and television roles and for being the sister of Patricia and David Arquette, also likened the shape of Leto’s dick to that of a “Praetorian Guard’s helmet,” which we’re guessing also means he is circumcised.

The revelations came in response to Beat’s question, “Tell me a secret!”:

I had sex with Jared Leto back when I was presenting as a male. And, yes, it’s not only massive; it’s like a Praetorian Guard’s helmet.

Alexis also reveals that if given the chance to “have wild, passionate, dirty animal sex with” any celebrity, she would choose Jon Hamm. Size queen.

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  • Tackle

    Unless someone is a hypocrite, and doing harm to the LGBTQ community, kissing & telling is always tacky. And Jon Hamm is average at best.

  • DarkZephyr

    @Tackle: I agree with everything you say except the gratuitous snark about Jon Hamm.

  • Tackle

    @DarkZephyr: I don’t see how you see that as a snark. I’m just stating the obvious. Regardless of him being average ( which I prefer) large or small, he’s still a man and a sexy one at that…

  • Pistolo

    A Praetorian guard’s helmet has like a “lip” or component that comes over the head. I’ve heard Jared has a foreskin so Alexis might be telling the truth.

  • MarionPaige

    I stumbled upon the movie Switchback mid-way through on tv and all through the movie I was fascinated by the pairing of Jared Leto with Danny Glover. At one point in the movie, they even share a hotel room together, when Glover’s character (driving a car with porn pasted all over it) picks up Leto’s character hitch hiking. The tip off that the homoerotic overtones in the movie were deliberate comes at the end of the movie when Glover’s character walks towards Leto’s character and he says: “Time to give it up”. I’ve seen the movie many times and I still have to wonder under what set of circumstances would a Jared Leto be traveling with a Danny Glover and it not be sexual? Leto is also very young and stunning in the movie. While there is a shower scene, I saw no hint of any huge penis.

    Last I read something from Alexis Arquette, he seemed bitter than he lost out being cast in Will & Grace to Sean Hayes

  • Masc Pride

    I wonder why “Alexis” completely opted against feminizing his face. He looks more masculine now than he did as Robert.

  • TheGayMafia

    Wonder what Jared Leto must have been smoking to sleep with Alexis arquette anyhow.. =(

  • Wingfield

    Not familiar with that term “presenting as male”. I’m guessing it means before transition? Does that also imply that Leto was sleeping with a man which would essentially make him gay? I’m clueless here…

  • Saint Law

    @Masc Pride: You can set your watch by it: another trans-related thread – another toothless snark from big bottom bitch “Masc” Pride.

    Girl, you’re obsessed.

  • michael mellor

    I wonder if Alexis Arquette’s vagina was as wide as a Mack truck.

  • NG22

    Why didn’t they film it?! And is Jared still sleeping with men? I just got a vision of him giving a BJ. God, he’s gorgeous.

  • misterhollywood

    One of my favorite actors. Loved his speech at MTV Awards. I wonder if he’ll comment on this claim by the actress? I love that she offered a description of his anatomy!!

  • lykeitiz

    Alexis Arquette? Seriously? Well, whether Leto is into women or men (or both), we know one thing: He has bad taste.

  • Jason b.

    Well this is sure titilating especially those of us lusting after Mr. Leto. Given the description by Alexis, the observation by the poster in the link about belly buttons and the fact Jared being Irish is likley uncut, we might have pictorial evidence of Alexis’ claim.

  • Cam

    So he just outted Leto? “Presenting as a man” is shorthand for before transitioning.

  • Gigi Gee

    @Cam: Thanks for the update Cam. We wouldn’t have known what it meant had you not illuminated us. ;-)

  • Masc Pride

    @Saint Law: Speaking of obsessed, how’s the president of my fan club doing this afternoon? :)

    @Gigi Gee: LOL

  • Tackle

    @Jason b.: I hope that’s NOT Jared Leto’s penis. Because when I zoomed in close, I noticed what appeared to be warts at and around the tip of the foreskin, and some strange red marks or something else to the left of that meat.

  • SteveDenver

    Alexis was an adorable guy and had quite a large penis. Jared Leto is so dreamy.

  • Cam

    @Gigi Gee: said… “@Cam: Thanks for the update Cam. We wouldn’t have known what it meant had you not illuminated us. ;-) ”


    Bitch. LOL!

  • DuMaurier

    @Cam: Meow!! Anyway, like another poster here I didn’t find “presented as male” absolutely clear, since I associated that phrase more with simple self-identification (e.g., by gender pronoun), which doesn’t depend on whether or not someone has transitioned. So, thank you.

  • MarionPaige

    In some parts, Presenter is slang for gay and, I think, more specifically slang for the bottom in gay sex. It originates, me thinks, from the reference in biology that females present and males mount.

  • MarionPaige

    so if someone from the UK said “presenting as male” it could in theory mean a guy who identifies as female being sexually active as a gay male.

  • Blackceo

    Even though i prefer short haired Jared Leto instead of the long haired grungy look, he could still get it. I’ve been crushing on him since My So Called Life and if what Alexis saud is true, I’m jelly.

  • Pistolo

    @Tackle: @Jason b.:

    Supposedly it isn’t him but it’s been said that’s basically what his dick looks like anyways. He’s probably uncircumcised more because his mother was a big hippie though, he lived on communes for a large part of his upbringing.

  • DarkZephyr

    When she says “back when I was presenting as a male” she means before she came out as trans and still socialized and outwardly lived as male, before she transitioned. So, if Jared Leto had sex with her back then, he was having sex with someone that he perceived to be male.

  • inbama

    Or in plain sane English – Leto had sex with her when she was still a man.

    And a rather hot man at that.

  • Jaska

    @Masc Pride: She. Don’t misgender people, it’s rude.

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