Capitalism has some strange outcomes.
Destroying the planet and suppressing the poor aside, many guys have realized they can earn money — even build a career — by tapping into the gay market — all it takes is a little emotional detachment. Easy!
Below, guys let off a little built up tension at their gay-for-pay lifestyles on Whisper. Maybe you’ve seen some of their work:
Luis Collazo
I like gay for pay guys!
Damon Robbins
I never had to pay for sex.
Andrew Harvey
That was more of a confessional not, “what it’s like to be gay for pay”.
William Meyer
Keith Howard
I think the operative word we’re looking for is whore. Good for them. Funny that most of the men are OK with it but we still shame women over prostitution. Hmmm
Bobby Lusby
I would really rather be with someone who wants to be with me….and not because I paid them.
BigG
Gay for pay… no such thing. More like bi for pay. These men are fully bisexual or gay in denial. I’m gay and there’s no way I could have sex with a woman. Physically it disgusts me. If you can do it, your not fully straight. Money or not.
Arcamenel
If I was fit enough that a woman would actually pay to have sex with me I’d do it.
James Sigmon
If you have to pay then it’s not real. They are just their for the $$$ .
James Sigmon
If you have that kid of deposable income take a vacation why pay for for a trick ,
James Sigmon
Also called stupid
James Sigmon
Who writes this crap nothing but a bunch of ads and some need to come out of the closet .
Realitycheck
@BigG: Agreed, a completely straight man would be repulsed by even the idea of gay sex, to what ever small % these guys are at the very least bisexuals.
Manny Yoko
YEAH YEAH …. I’m 100% GAY and I will never BE “STR8 For Pay”
Glücklich
Whatever pays the bills.
I totally get the guy who stripped to get over being shy. I started going to sex clubs for the same reason. They’re only erotic up to a point but they helped me get over my hang-ups, like, naked – big whoop.
@Keith Howard:
Come back in an hour or so and you’ll see shaming. Although it’s Sunday…come back in the afternoon when everyone’s back from brunch, but the bottomless mimosas and bloody marys might temper some of it.
@BigG:
I concur. Under the right circumstances I could be fine with naked body contact and getting handsy with a woman but that area…no. Been there but haven’t quite “done” that.
Robert Montano
DENIAL!!!!!!
Realitycheck
@Keith Howard: True to a point, generally speaking society looks down on any kind of prostitution from anyone.
Mario Francisco Garcia
Everybody has a dream…
Desert Boy
Capitalism takes its many forms. As long as it’s safe (wear protection if fucking is involved), I have no problem with it.
Chris Hilton
Lane Hurley
Tommy Ogletree
Gay for pay is lame
Michiel Naude
Is it not also called prostitution?
Jim McHardy
Whatever turns your crank lol
sportsguy1983
OMG! No one cares.
Baba Booey Fafa Fooey
Closet-cases. Homophobic closet-cases.
These whispers are so homophobic…why does this site post them so often?
NoCagada
“I’m straight. The smell of money makes my dick hard.”
Sure…
Scott McIntosh
“Little Jo never gave it away,
Scott McIntosh
everyone had to pay and pay, hustle here and hustle there, New York city is someplace where…….”
Kevin J Desmond
I personaly have no respect for guys who are gay for pay, to me there are liars and I don’t trust them.
Giancarlo85
None of these guys are straight and if people want to claim they are… they think wrong. Just more closet cases and some of which are homophobic.
I’m going by the assumption that even a quarter of these are true… knowing the source. Whisper more like whiny bitches who can’t accept themselves (again assuming if any of these statements are true).
These were probably made by some gay guy with some self hating fantasy.
Tom Strohecker
What a sad life having to rent out your body for a living.
Glamorizing it as “gay-for-pay” doesn’t change the fact that this is prostitution and that guy is a hooker.
Arcamenel
I think it’s really dangerous to equate the ability to have sex with one gender with sexuality. I could, in theory, have sex with women. I don’t have a problem getting an erection in even the weirdest circumstances so I’m sure I could maintain one to do the deed. I am however not attracted to women emotionally or romantically. It’s the same as having sex with someone you really aren’t in to. You might enjoy the sex but doesn’t mean you want anything to do with the guy once the sex is over.
Bauhaus
@NoCagada:
Maybe the smell of a$$ makes them hard.
Fabricio Quintanilla
I just want to say this then SIN. is like a credit card enjoy now pay letter but trust me you gone pay really bad your disobedient
God love the people but hem not like they acting
Stefano
Who cares if they are straight or not? It would be fun to know who are their ‘clients’.
Curty
@Arcamenel: what you said made no sense but only to yourself.
Giancarlo85
@Arcamenel: Wow. You don’t really make any sense. Don’t make me agree with Curty lol. 🙂 Your nonsensical statement doesn’t change the fact that these quotes are fake.
Stefano
@Fabricio Quintanilla:
Did you give enough money to your god to enter heaven? If you don’t give enough money to the church or gpd, you will go in hell ! God loves you but he wants your moneys and he is watching you ! Don’t disappoint him or you will burn in hell !!!
Stefano
@Fabricio Quintanilla: by the way, i’m god…send me a $1 million dollar check NOW !
Baba Booey Fafa Fooey
@Arcamenel: what are you saying?
Stefano
@Baba Booey Fafa Fooey: i think that nobody knows…including himself.
Leonard Woodrow
@Fabricio Quintanilla: I’m afraid you’re too gullible, Fabricio. “God” is a human invention, and doesn’t really exist except in the minds of credulous people like you.
Wake up and see the world and life as it really is!
JerseyMike
I have paid for sex one time.. Not because I had to but because I wanted to see what it was about.. The sex was ok.. Have had much better for free.. No plans to ever do it again..
Glücklich
@JerseyMike:
Twice here for very specific experiences. Planning those experiences, rather than having them happen organically, robbed it of any sort of heat.
enlightenone
@Luis Collazo: “I like gay for pay guys!” Gay hoes do.
enlightenone
@Arcamenel: “…You might enjoy the sex” because you are not “straight!”
Gord Dunbar
What about doing a article on straight-for-pay?
Stefano
I’ve been paid for sex by a 60 yo man when i was 19 yo. It was fun. I enjoy remembering these magical moments.
Captain Obvious
So strange how a gay site is always focusing on having sex with “straight” guys.
L Daniel E Kaufman
Why are we being creepy and still paying for it? Eesh
Ridpathos
I’m not turned on by girls at all, but if I got paid $300 for a quickie, sure, as long as she wasn’t physically gross, or had diseases.
Most of these gay for pay guys are getting paid to have sex with some of the hottest guys out there, so I can see why you don’t have to bend their arm.
stanhope
I’m not straight so perhaps this isn’t a venue appropriate for my comment. That said, the article brought to mind that I’ve taken money twice for sex. Both times they were guys I would have done anyway. The first time, I thought it was a hoot. Here’s this person, who went to college prep, a nationally renowned university and grew up in a very nice neighborhood that the person offering the money probably couldn’t fathom. It was flattering and something to chat up the friends about. I had been offered money a few other times [do I look like a hustler? LOL] I have no judgments to pass. A couple of my friends are porn stars, and I hook up with a few porn stars who are well known in Europe and Canada. I say to each his own. The entire thing is a fantasy anyway. I just don’t like it when straight actors take gay roles that a gay actor could easily perform.
Cam
Another day, another prostitution post. (Yawn)
Brian
Gay-for-pay is code for “I’m a prostitute”.
Steve Hanson
Boners don’t lie.
Glücklich
@Brian:
I don’t think there’s any “code” about it. Any other statements of the obvious you’d like to make?
I’m surprised you couldn’t work something in there about wives being prostitutes for their husbands’ money or husbands being prostitutes for their wives’ stench trench.
Bisexual-Transwoman
@Brian: Indeed, but they know that they can ca$h in on gay men who need the pipe dream fantasy of having sex with a real hetero/straight guy.
@stanhope: So you’re bragging that you’re a prostitute? How odd. Nobody that does gay or bisexual porn is actually “straight”. As for actual actors and actresses I have no issues with someone who is hetero playing someone gay or bisexual, or someone who is not trans playing someone trans.
Bisexual-Transwoman
@BigG: Exactly. In bi and gay porn where they claim the men are “straight” or “gay for pay” it’s all just based on biphobic and homophobic marketing and because they know that there are some gay men who have the pipe dream fantasy of being with a real hetero guy.
Bisexual-Transwoman
@Captain Obvious: Yes, or how people will brag and tell everyone here that they’ve actually been a prostitute and done sex for pay.
Caylin Joey Gerhardt
im gay for pay
Ill take my payment in dick please <3
Wil Chaney
Why write it so anti-capitalism?
Jorge Olivares
wait a f$$%ing minute. We can get PAID for being gay? No one told me!!!! Who do I talk about back pay?
Emilio Fernandez
They’re gay and they take cash. The end.
Amsterdirk
There are discussion forums about gay porn where users find Facebook profiles of gay4pay actors. After seeing many of them, I promise you: they are straight. People claiming they’re not is just wishful thinking. Also, I’m 100% gay but can see myself have sex with a woman for money. Doesn’t make me bisexual. Who cares anyway? Can’t these guys do what they want without a label?
CaliKyle
@BigG: Anyone who claims that the thought of being sexually involved with an entire gender “disgusts” him or her likely has some sort of serious issue or problem above and beyond sexuality. Regardless of your profound, angry ignorance, I am a gay man, not a bisexual, and I have had sex with several women in my past. Orientation is defined by much, much more than with whom one may have had sex in some point in time. For you to claim otherwise reveals your own problematic approach to sex and does absolutely nothing to change my true orientation nor that of any other person who has experienced sex with both genders.
CaliKyle
@Bisexual-Transwoman: Sex with straight guys isn’t just a “pipedream fantasy” for all of us, but I’m sure for you it seems that way since you’re basing your comment on personal experience. There are too many ignorant people who, if a guy who has only had sex with girls then has sex even once with another male, then he’s forever branded gay or bisexual whether or not he’s ever with another guy. Yet females are allowed to screw around with as many girls as they’d like (or as many as her bf or husband wants her to)and almost no one will refer to them as lesbian or bi, they simply wave it a way with “just a phase” and go on their merry straight way. Double standard bullshit and its particularly galling when gay men perpetuate such baseless nonsense. So, bisexual transwhatever, you can continue to spew forth your ignorant drivel (you’re in good company here)about any boy who touches balls is bi! and so forth, but your drivel is based on your own inexperience and bitter biases, mine is based on experience. I’ve been with straight guys in the past who are truly heterosexual, but like their horny straight sisters they sometimes get curious and act on that curiosity – this alone doesn’t change anyone’s actual orientation. It’s hate like yours and equally ignorant BigG that causes the aforementioned straight guys to feel unduly guilty, self loathing, confused to the point where they sometimes attack the males with whom they’ve dabbled. Gay men shaming straight men into the down low is even worse than when straights do it.
enlightenone
@CaliKyle: “…I’ve been with straight guys in the past who are truly heterosexual, but like their horny straight sisters they sometimes get curious and act on that curiosity – this alone doesn’t change anyone’s actual orientation. It’s hate like yours and equally ignorant BigG that causes the aforementioned straight guys to feel unduly guilty, self loathing, confused to the point where they sometimes attack the males with whom they’ve dabbled. Gay men shaming straight men into the down low is even worse than when straights do it.”
POSTERBOY FOR DICKWHIPPED OR 16?
Bisexual-Transwoman
@CaliKyle: Please, those guys are bi or gay. If they were really hetero/straight they would not have sex with men at all, or would not be male prostitutes having sex with men for cash, or would not be doing bisexual or gay porn.
Bisexual-Transwoman
@Amsterdirk: Yeah it’s just marketing based on homophobia and biphobia. These guys are not “straight” anymore than you or I are.
Hussain-TheCanadian
Well, im not really surprised, they are prostitutes after all, and no they shouldn’t feel ashamed – Life has thrown them a curve ball and they are dealing with it, I just hope that I am not put in such a situation where im forced to sell my body to make money.
Also……I can’t imagine having sex with a woman, the thought of it makes me sick….money or no money – I even have a hard time watching straight porn because the female body is such a sexual turn off. That’s just me …..I think we all have a tolerance level.
Billy Budd
They are BISEXUAL, have no doubt of that. Bisexual I say.
Joshua
@stanhope: you must be incredibly hot
Joshua
@CaliKyle: very well said I think you are totally right
enlightenone
@Joshua: Member of the “Dickwhipped” Club. Congrats! Sadly, I’m sure you and CaliKyle aren’t the only members.
Bauhaus
@CaliKyle:
You should start a support group for straight guys and the gays who bang them.
dwes09
@BigG: Just because you are personally disgusted by having sex with a women does not mean that all gay men would be or that all straight men would be disgusted by having sex with a man. You’re not everyone. I went down on a woman years ago at an orgy at a friend’s house. Didn’t really arouse me, but it was nonetheless fun for the extreme reaction it had on her. And I have to say it was physically easier than giving good head to another man even though I’d have been very aroused gagging on a big dick.
dwes09
A couple of things:
1. why exactly should we believe things posted on a site self described as “Anonymous secret-sharing and messaging for free!”? What could be easier than getting your jollies as a “secret sharing” troll? Does anybody actually think truth abounds on phone apps?
2. nothing said has anything to do with their experiences having sex with gay men or for gay men for money. It is simply confession.
Blackceo
I don’t understand why people are trying to label these guys as having to at least be bisexual. Are straight Hollywood actors who play gay roles at least bi? They are acting. So why is it different for straight men in porn? You’d be surprised what people will do for money. I can totally buy that many of these guys are completely straight. Could some be bi? Sure. But to completely label that all of them are is just ignorant. It’s called acting and obviously being secure in your sexuality to separate the two.
paul dorian lord fredine
just because you strip in a gay club but, sorry, don’t consider tat ‘gay4pay’ especially if there’s no touching. there are a lot of gay strippers in ladies clubs but i don’t think they consider themselves ‘strait4pay’. you’re having full on sex, that’s a whole different matter. you’re in denial and just making excuses. for the ones who say their girlfriend don’t know? got news for you; either you’re just a jerk and should ‘fess up or they know, honey. they know and are also in denial thinking it’s just a phase and you’ll get over it. or putting it more simply….you’re bi and eventually will come out of the closet.
enlightenone
@Blackceo: “ignorant” is this comment: “It’s called acting and obviously being secure in your sexuality to separate the two”
“Acting” is acting; and FUCKING IS FUCKING – you know cum out of the anus, on the face, mouth/and swallowed!
Don’t comment with a dick up your ass and, perhaps, you won’t type such a moronic comment again!
Blackceo
@enlightenone:
LOL. I’m so tickled that you are so bothered. ANYWAY….there was an HBO thing on Real Sex I believe about gay for pay porn stars and they had the girlfriends on set and showed that there has to be straight porn playing in the background. In some gay porn you can even hear straight porn playing in the background, which was said in one of the above confessions. So why exactly is my comment ignorant because you saying so doesn’t mean shit to me unless you specify why it is. Hell, even then it doesn’t mean shit to me. But, just curious as to some specifics instead of petulant all caps yelling and name calling.
Bisexual-Transwoman
@Blackceo: Because they’re having sex with men and they’re not “straight” or “heterosexual” at all. Yes and I have seen gay porns where they had gay porn on in the background since despite being gay the men doing gay porn were not sexually attracted to the other men they were doing porn or sex for pay with.
Greg
@Arcamenel: That is true about what you can do with women. But to do that would be easier than guys being with guys. A lot of gay guys have had sex with women only because that is what men and women do, we were told. For a guy to choose to have sex with another guy, they would have to not be completely straight. Somewhat straight, mostly straight, straightish, but not entirely straight. But then, he would be bisexual actually.
Soldier_Medic
In this sorta’ related topic, Tom Hardy Has Dated Men, the operative word is dated, opposed to Gay for pay.
http://www.queerty.com/tom-hardy-has-dated-men-but-wont-bottom-20110912
This is why I refrain from the latest hot young ‘STR8’thing threads.
I say this because, aren’t the Nick Jonas’s, Alex Minskys , who are
assigned “GAY ICON” titles essentially doing the same thing?
Like a lot of what’s now referred to as ‘famous people’, they look good, & a story is built around them to suit a certain desire/ fantasy.
“Oh you think I’m gay. Hell for the right price, I could tease you a little, show up to a few charity events, cash my checks, then go & screw my girlfriend.”
All off of an illusion.
Giancarlo85
@CaliKyle: You are lying to yourself. Those men aren’t straight. If they were they wouldn’t have sex with men. Stop fooling yourself with some cheap fantasy.
tusgold
if the right dude comes along they could fall in love. All of my str8 friends have had a one, two a few guys they were attracted to, Not guys in general but very specific guy. People fall in love with the soul personality etc I am someone who believes that sexuality is very fluid. No I dont think every str8 guy is gay
DuMaurier
@Giancarlo85: I don’t know anything about these guys specifically, but comments like yours kind of make me uneasy. I am gay, absolutely, but I’ve had sex with women. Nobody’s ever suggested I’m “lying to myself” about being gay because of it; it’s just something I did, and it was okay, felt pretty good, I was drunk, etc, but no–not for a steady diet, by any means.
And lesbian prostitutes have sex with men all the time, but who says: “Aha! Caught you, you pretend lesbian!” But doing “something gay” almost seems likened to an infection; if you do it it’s “got” you, and there’s no cure. Why do we understand and accept that gay people can do “something straight” out of necessity or just for the hell of it and still be gay, but it can’t work the other way around? I think we should leave the “If you do even ONE thing you’re gay forever!” to the homophobes.
enlightenone
@DuMaurier: “I think we should leave the “If you do even ONE thing you’re gay forever!” to the homophobes.”
It’s a deal when you leave “sexuality” to the experts: psychologists, biologists, anthropologists, and sociologists!
Giancarlo85
@DuMaurier: You can be “uneasy” all you want. You’re not gay. You are bisexual.
You don’t understand sexuality like so many others on here.
surreal33
I don’t understand? Gay men put straight men on a pedestal. Then belly ache and whine about gay for pay. Gay for pay would end ASAP if gay men would end the obsession with straight men. Gay for pay is not done to us it is perpetuated by gay men.
Bernice Jenkins
@BigG:
You know that is not true and you are wrong and I can point out why which you cannot deny. Look how many gay men in the closet and scared to come out stay married with kids and live a “straight” life for years at times. There wives never know and they are having sex. But these men are not bi usually. Theya re scared to come out and gotta keep up the image. So if they are able to do it then its possible to in the other direction
Bernice Jenkins
@Greg: Ummm no sorry. that double standard is bullshit. closeted gay men have sex with their wives for years and yet they are totally gay. so dont give me that crap about only gay men can do it because we are taught that way.
Bernice Jenkins
@stanhope: Oh really? So the I hope you believe the opposite then also and don’t like it when gay actors take straight roles that straight people could easily do. Its called acting.
CaliKyle
@Bisexual-Transwoman: Your opinion indicates you have little understanding of human sexuality and place a bigoted amount of importance on labeling others. By your logic, a straight man who once in his life sexually experimented with another male is bisexual or gay, period. Do you extend this same retrograde logic to females who sexually experiment with each other? Because most do not. The implicit message behind labeling every straight male who has ever dabbled with another male as gay or bi is a message of self loathing and an inability to accept oneself (when it comes from gay guys) or raw fear (when it comes from straight guys). Gay guys indulge in this unfair labeling because we would prefer to have a bigger team, so to speak. We want to believe there are many more guys “just like us” than not. Sorry, stats are what they are, deal with it and learn to love yourself in practice, Transwoman, not just in words/theory. Straight guys claim any dude who touches dick is gay or bi because if they admit that sometimes straight males like to sexplore with guys then its tantamount to admitting they’re capable of doing the same thing. So, in order to preserve their hetero status in the eyes of all others they must separate themselves from known same sex dabblers. Everybody, gays included, need to do a lot less labeling and a lot more shutting the hell up with their closedminded ignorant bullshit.
CaliKyle
@DuMaurier: Agree with everything you said. Im also unequivocally gay but on occasion in the past have had sex with females, especially during college and mostly out of curiosity. Did not make me bisexual or any less gay. Bisexuals are routinely sexually and romantically attracted to both sexes. I’m not. Simply being able to penetrate and orgasm in a woman’s vagina or ass does not make one bisexual. Too many people wrongly believe that it does.
Mrcubanbear
Well, looks like I could quit my job now.