President Joe Biden was the special guest on Comedy Central’s The Daily Show last night. Interviewed by gay comic actor Kal Penn, the discussion touched upon LGBTQ+ issues.
Penn, engaged to his partner, Josh, for the past five years, asked the President about his attitude towards same-sex marriage.
Biden recalled his first experience with gay people when he saw two men kissing on the street back in the 1950s. He was in his senior year in High School at the time. His dad took him to city hall to pick up a job application to be a lifeguard at a pool in Wilmington, DE.
“My dad was dropping me off to go in and get an application. I remember I’m about to get out of the car and I look to my right. Two well-dressed men in suits kissed each other. I’ll never forget it, I turned and looked to my dad. He said, ‘Joey, it’s simple. They love each other.’ … I’m not joking. And it’s just that simple.
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“It doesn’t matter whether it’s same-sex or a heterosexual couple. You should be able to be married. What is the problem?”
Penn, 45, told Biden that his aunties and uncles have expressed disappointment to him at not yet tying the knot. Biden agreed with them, telling him to listen to his relatives, “get married. Do it now. Don’t wait.”
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Penn is best known for Harold and Kumar and Designated Survivor, and also worked for the Obama administration
Florida “close to sinful”
Biden also criticized the “cruel” treatment of trans people in Florida, saying, “What’s going on in Florida is, as my mother would say, close to sinful.
“I mean, it’s just terrible what they’re doing,” he continued. “It’s not like a kid wakes up one morning and says, ‘You know, I decided I want to become a man’ or ‘I want to become a woman’ or ‘I want to change.’ What are they thinking about here? They are human beings. They love, they have feelings, they have inclinations that are… It just, to me, is, I don’t know is, it’s cruel.”
He said the only way to fight such discrimination was to “make sure we pass legislation like we passed with same-sex marriage. You mess with that, you’re breaking the law and you’re going to be held accountable.”
Florida’s GOP-controlled state legislature passed its infamous ‘Don’t Say Gay’ bill last year. Officially named the “Parental Rights In Education’ Act, it bars teachers of younger kids from discussing LGBTQ+ issues.
The state has barred trans girls from competing in sports in alignment with their gender. More recently, the Florida banned gender-affirming care for minors. It is also defunding diversity and inclusion initiatives in universities.
New proposed legislation in the state, entitled the “Protection of Children” bill, targets hotels and restaurants that allow minors to view “adult entertainment”. It also threatens to potentially send parents to jail for up to a year if they take kids to drag shows. It doesn’t mention ‘drag’ by name but mentions “the lewd exposure of prosthetic or imitation genitals or breasts” among its definition of “adult” entertainment, so we all know what it’s talking about.
The environment and MAGA
Biden and Penn also talked extensively about the environment and the battle in the Republican party between moderates and MAGA devotees. Watch the full interview between them on YouTube. The comments on LGBTQ+ issues comes after the 14.40 mark.
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This was beautiful.
Mister P
We are lucky to have a decent and enlightened president.
thebaddestbabby
meh
Den
“meh”
Are you saying he isn’t decent and enlightened? Certainly he has 1000 times more ethics than Trump did. Certainly he has less hypocrisy than ANY republican politician.
thebaddestbabby
“decent,” sure, insofar as anyone who is the president can be decent while also being charge of the various evils done by the USofA to its own citizens and the rest of the world (see: warfare; capitalism; neoliberalism; etc. etc.).
“enlightened,” I think not? I mean, it’s 2023, there’s nothing particularly enlightened about being OK with gay men. Over 70 percent of Americans support same-sex marriage, and even more are basically tolerant of gay people (e.g., two men, who love each other, kissing). It’s just kinda the normal view now. Sure, in the 1950s things were different, but Biden is telling this story now, and we are judging him by today’s standards.
But what I REALLY was saying “meh” about was the word “lucky”: just because Trump lowered the bar, doesn’t mean Joe Biden can’t raise it above where it was before Trump, which was already pretty low. We deserve much, much more from our politicians. In a democracy, we don’t “luck” into having good (or bad) politicians, at least in theory.
If it is just luck, well, then, it’s a shitty democracy.
abfab
We (USA) do not have a democracy.
DBMC
@thebaddestbabby
If you remember, he spoke up for marriage equality before most of the mainstream Dems (Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton) got on board. Everyone thought it was a “gaffe” but it was intentional and the right thing to do. He is definitely both decent and enlightened. He is the most progressive President we’ve ever had.
thebaddestbabby
@DBMC on social issues, sure. but when it comes to the economy, welfare state, etc. I’ll take LBJ or even Nixon
Ronbo
WIthout Joe Biden as VP, President Obama and Hillary would still be insisting that marriage “will ALWAYS be between one man and one woman” insisting that God doesn’t approve of our love saying he can’t support us because “God is in the mix”. Two sellouts do not make for a good political party. Thank God for Joe Biden who put the bigots in their place (history).
RIGay
Agreed. President Obama always says it was Joe who got him to rethink, to evolve his stance on same-sex marriage. Without Joe, it probably would not have happened as it did.
305Ghuy
For some time I have been convinced that the President, any of them no matter the party; are given a binder that outlines areas in which they can make changes, changes they can take credit for; certain fights they can have; and the ‘non-negotiable’ areas of governace that are the true “third rail” that they need to stay clear of.
Obama, as the first non fully white President was always on a shortend leash, as was Mrs Clinton (Xx) in that the nation might not have been as forgiving with either of them making such a radical move (pushing those ‘minority concerns’. Fortunately Biden, the seasoned white man on the scene was able to advocate for ‘gay marriage’ and provide cover for Obama to follow suit.
As the impact of trump, the insurrection, and the abortion / LGBTQ, esp Trans-bans / CRT (BS) / Abbott and DiSatanist show, as a nation we still have a way to evolve as an inclusive and generous place within the human family.
Kangol2
Not sure how many times this needs to be said, but Barack Obama supported same-sex marriage when he was an Illinois State Senator, before he became the US Senator from Illinois, and then the President of the United States. There are a number of things to fault Obama on, as with Biden, Don the Con, W Bush, and every other president, but it was not solely “Joe Biden as VP” who shifted Obama’s public political stance on same-sex marriage.
LumpyPillows
I agree Obama was always on our side, but politically he stayed on the fence. He thought he had to to be elected. It actually was VP Joe Biden and Joe’s statement on gay marriage that opened the door for Obama to finally admit in public what he had always supported in person.
dbmcvey
@LumpyPillows
Just curious, when you say “out” who are you talking about?
LumpyPillows
Didn’t say “out”. Troll elsewhere.
Cato
We are lucky to have a kind and compassionate president who was raised by a kind and compassionate father. Biden’s father was born in 1916 and was from all accounts a devout Catholic. To have such an open-hearted view of same-sex relationships in that era, during the height of the lavender witch hunts of McCarthy and Eisenhower, is pretty incredible.
AllahsHappyHalal PorkEmporium
Simply just another crap pandering LIE from the ‘Imbecile in Chief’!!!
He will suck minority homo dick for a vote!!!
thebaddestbabby
AllahsHappyHalal PorkEmporium
I think you may be in the wrong place here? this is a website that caters to gay men. If you are experiencing same-sex attraction, you are more than welcome tho. You don’t have to hate yourself!
Doug
He’ll come around eventually, they always do.
thebaddestbabby
true, for some the path is longer and harder than others…
LumpyPillows
I always get such a chuckle at what you write! I especially fid it funny how you spend time to write things that will have actually zero effect on anyone who reads them. So transparently baiting and trollish…a masterpiece in wasted time. I look forward to your next gem.
thebaddestbabby
@LumpyPillows are you talking to me?
LumpyPillows
No, hun. This Allah troll.
thebaddestbabby
@LumpyPillows oh, well then we agree! xoxo
James
DROP DEAD MORON. NOBODY HERE LIKES YOU TROLL.
Bosch
Gosh, Porky sure gets grumpy after a wank.
storm45701
Dude, you ok? You need some money for therapy?
Jim
Two men kissing in public in the ’50’s!!
Does anyone else think this doesn’t pass the smell test?
Kangol2
I believe it. You’d be surprised, I guess, at the things real people do in real time, despite the public strictures of any given era.
LumpyPillows
Now, why would he make it up? Why do you feel the need to try and undermine it?
Den
There are pictures of gay men being gay men that date back to the 1920s. In cities people certainly felt freer to be themselves than in the rural areas. And the 50’s were the height of the Beat Era.
dbmcvey
My dad, who was 50 when I was born talked about men kissing on the streets of New York City in the Great Depression, so, it passes my smell test.
tjack47
I think, Obama and Clinton, were smart enough to know you do not take on an issue like same sex marriage in a first term. I don’t believe either of them evolved on the issue. I think they intelligently played a political game. They got it done, even with all the obstructionism. They truly didn’t have objections regarding same sex marriage, ever.
Kangol2
Barack Obama supported same-sex marriage when he was an Illinois State Senator representing a district in Chicago. His stance on same-sex marriage began to shift when he won the junior US Senate Senate representing Illinois, which is a very liberal state (especially Chicago and its northern and southern suburbs), but essentially Kentucky/Missouri/Indiana in the rest of the state, except for Rockford, the Quad cities and East St. Louis. By the time he was elected president he’d shifted farther to moderate-conservative stance, but his administration did not fight the states that began to legalize same-sex marriage, and eventually supported Obergefell in Obergefell v. Hodges.
thebaddestbabby
@Kangol2 correct
Jack
Biden has told that story many times and I m sure it’s true. He’s one of the most authentic Presidents we’ve ever had. And even if you don’t love him—get on the train. If Ron DeSatin becomes President we will be be the center of his redneck rousing culture war.
LumpyPillows
He is truly the most authentic politician I have met, and I’ve met a lot of them. Well, a lot of democrats.
Creamsicle
It’s kind of undercut by his long career as a Democratic politician and conforming to the party belief of uneuqla marriage rights from the 1980s until 2015.
Joe does deserve a lot of credit for essentially forcing Obama into endorsing marriage equality by being genuine during an interview when he was VP.
“It’s simple,” doesn’t really jive with being a centrist Democrat for as long as he was. It’s a great narrative to win over young progressives who don’t appreciate how long he served in the Senate and had every opportunityto advocate for marriage equality before public opinion turned on gay acceptance, though.
I just hope and pray that Biden doesn’t try to run again in 2024, but we’re a year out and no primary challengers have emerged, so it looks like we’re in for Grandpocalypse 2024 again. I wonder if Trump is going to refuse to participate in debates again.
Gay Thomas
Those of you who aren’t the biggest Biden supporters, remember that Trump said he was coming after abortion and women”s rights and HE DID. DeSantis has said he is coming after LGBTQ rights. HE HAS in Florida and HE WILL nationally if he wins the Presidency. He realizes more than anyone that culture war issues are what motivates his ignorant, poorly educated base.
Don’t vote against your own best interests. We have come too far to go backwards. Joe Biden is a good and decent man who has legislatively gotten so much done, and more importantly a strong ally for our community. Don’t listen to the trolls here, Joe Biden is our only choice. AND Don’t boo, VOTE!
thebaddestbabby
it’s just not true that Joe Biden is “our only choice”
Chaucer
Joe Biden is an excellent President. His accomplishments speak for themselves. He’s a uniter and not a divider. He’s caring and compassionate. And anyone who thinks this man has dementia has no idea what dementia is. He’s sharp. His short-term memory and higher intellectual functions are intact. He is well informed and experienced. He’s the opposite of the former administration. I’m with him for 2024 with no reservations.
abfab
My only reservation is his seal of approval on The Willow Project.