Jealousy is often irrational, but itâs rarely of the drug-fueled, bowl-throwing variety that finds you beating up your boyfriend for watching adult films, even though you perform in them yourself.
And youâve already served jail time for beating him up in the past.
Nevertheless, a gay adult film star is in legal hot water after finding an exciting new way to demonstrate your double standards: He was arrested for beating up his boyfriend for watching gay pornography.
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Jared Louis Velazquez â better known by his screen name Tyce Jax â was arrested on domestic violence charges.
The 31-year-old reportedly violently beat his partner Bobby Hamill, pushing him to the floor and choking him against the wall, then grabbing a knife and throwing a glass bowl.
According to an affidavit seen by Project Q Atlanta:
â[Hamill] stated he was watching porn on his iPad Pro when Mr.Velazquez asked him, âDo you really need to do that?â
âMr. Hamill added he then went to the restroom and heard a loud noise.
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âHe came out of the restroom and asked Mr. Velazquez what was the noise and they began arguing.â
This is, in fact, the fifth time Velazquez has been arrested on domestic violence charges.
The iPad on which Hamill was watching the material was smashed to pieces during the scuffle.
According to documents, Hamill tried to leave his boyfriend and thatâs when Valezquez âsnatched the keys from him and began choking him against the wall.â
He claims thatâs when he was slammed to the ground and hit several times.
To make things even sketchier, Valezquez is claiming his partner is to blame for the incident, and that his drug use was the real issue behind the fight.
Court documents claim that âMr. Velazquez stated all of this happened because of Mr. Hamillâs drugs.â
âHe didnât elaborate on the incident and only stated the injuries were self inflicted.â
Valezquez has appeared in quite a few adult films, including 2015âs Raging Stallion, which was released while he was in prison for his first attack on Hamill.
He faces up to 20 years in prison for the attack, since he was already on probation.
ErikO
Gay men that do porn are not the best people to have as a “partner” or have a relationship with. I would not be surprised if this guy is into meth.
Prinny
Its an awful thing but, the irony of it is just so funny.
PRINCE OF SNARKNESS aka DIVKID
He sounds HAWT
ChrisK
I blame the boyfreind. This pornstar is too hot to do something like that. I totally believe his story that the boyfriend has a drug problem and likes to beat the shit out of himself on a regular basis. That bitch is lucky to have some like that in his life.
He BGB
This is opinion only but Hamill is the owner of a gay bar in Atlanta and I don’t think they give his age here. I don’t know it but I assume he is an older gentlemen who will put up with alot for a hot looking young (relatively) porn “star” boyfriend since this has happened before. Just my opinion.
Mark
@ErikO: I agree, can you imagine him coming home from work and you want to have sex he tells you I fucked 6 guys today I’m tired…
Kangol
Talk about a story that defines irony. Tyce Jax is so hot, but he clearly has serious anger and control issues. I hope he doesn’t end up behind bars again, though.
Bob LaBlah
According to documents, Hamill tried to leave his boyfriend and thatâs when Valezquez âsnatched the keys from him and began choking him against the wall.â
I’m willing to bet it was then that he realized how much rent was and how much porn DOESNT pay their performers.
Kangol
@He BGB: Not old at all, he’s a 30-something white dude: http://www.projectq.us/images/uploads/bobby_hamill.jpg
@Mark: Well, if you are dating a hot pornstar, doesn’t that come with the territory?
Bob LaBlah
@ChrisK: Are you honestly saying you do not see the neon sign BLARING from his forehead that says “I am full of myself? ” This is the type I could see as so vain they see no need whatsoever to spray air freshener out of consideration for others. You know what I mean.
ffxv
I wonder if bobby hammill is related to mark hammill. Sucks that he got beat up for the fifth time. Highlights that whole cycle of abuse thing. But they both have to be a bit broken in the head here. And I chuckled. Idk they need to figure their shit out or move on
Mark
@Kangol: I forgot to say “not 4 me”, I don’t consider porn actors husband material, just my opinion may not be yours
ChrisK
@Bob LaBlah: Please. Have you seen his huge c*ck? Like you or anyone here wouldnât deal with getting knocked around every now and then for it. What you call assault I call foreplay.
Chris
Things like this are why charges of “domestic violence” should not depend on th victims pressing charges.
The b.f. has been assaulted five times too many. He needs an intervention.
Doug
Mr. Hamill obviously has some self-esteem issues… he’s in a relationship with a porn star who uses drugs regularly, and has been beat up five (seriously?) times by the guy, but has stayed in the relationship so he apparently has come back for more several times. At this point I have very little sympathy for the guy.
gfmsoccer
So why are you dating a guy that’s been arrested 5 times for domestic violence?
MarionPaige
@Chris: “Things like this are why charges of âdomestic violenceâ should not depend on th victims pressing charges.”
saw a women in court in NYC who got upset because Prosecutors refused to drop abuse charges against her husband after she refused to press charges / testify against him. In general,
I would say that Prosecutors will prosecute any case they think they can win. Meaning, with or without any specific law in place, someone will be prosecuted for domestic violence if there is evidence (witnesses, photos, medical records etc) that the violence occurred.
fur_hunter
@ChrisK: ….Chris….I have a feeling you could be totally correct. I have seen relationships in my life that had drug or alcohol problems and none of them ended well. Yes. They all ended.
jhon_siders
His partner is a Idiot to still be with him after the first time he assaulted him ! With me it would happen once and not very long at that (purple belt In Taekwondo ) I guess this guy must have been giving out some good drugs and the BF hooked and dependent A sad story hope they throw the book at him In the 15 years I have been with my partner I have NEVER raised a fist to him even when he did over $1500 damage to the ZTR mower . We are into BDSM spanked his butt a few times in consensual play (EG) But never in anger .
Bob LaBlah
@ChrisK: Its obvious you have battered-queen syndrome.
Bob LaBlah
@Bob LaBlah: Do a google search and click on images. You will see your ramrod bottoming on several occasions. I knew it. He’s the type who will do anything to get the “part”. LOL
Bob LaBlah
@ChrisK: For some reason Queerty would not let me send that last message to you.
CMarks
@Doug: hit me once, shame on you. Hit me twice, shame on me. Hard to feel much sympathy for a five time “victim” but he seriously needs to examine his need and/or willingness to tolerate this abuse.
ChrisK
@fur_hunter: Yeah, I’ve had some similar experiences in my life too. Funny when I finally gave that shit up (drugging and boozing) how all the drama and BS went away too. Just like that. Took me way too long to figure that out though. I learned from the school of hard knocks.
ChrisK
@Bob LaBlah: Thanks for ruining my fantasy:( Meh. I don’t want him anymore. Bobby Hamill can have his ass back!
Keebler ILF
His mugshots don’t look very hot; I’ve seen sexier ones.
phallictomato
Bobby deserves better. If I had a boyfriend who physically abused me, he would be out that door SO fast. Also, if I caught my boyfriend watching porn, that would be kinda hot, lol.
Mr. Velazquez doesn’t know what he’s missing out on. Catching Bobby watching porn could lead to a kinkier sex life – like, asking him what he’s into, if he wants to try this or that etc. but instead, he beats Bobby up? WTF!?
Xzamilloh
@phallictomato: But, Jared himself is a porn star, so how much more kink could they possibly need? No, that Bobby guy needs to leave because after that many times, it’s only gonna escalate to the point where he suffers permanent damage or is killed.
robho3
Here’s an idea — lay off the meth and maybe just chill and smoke a joint.
Sluggo2007
So he can MAKE porn movies, but his boyfriend isn’t allowed to watch them? What a controlling POS. He needs to be dumped and quick.
Bob LaBlah
@ChrisK: No need to thank me. No matter how much I miss them dearly (NYC area) I can still recall a few of my knuckle headed friends and how I had to shake them back into reality by asking certain questions regarding their new Mr. Right that they had just met. Trust me, some of them had encountered real STINKERS.
JerseyMike
FIRST ATTACK!! How many times does someone have to hit you upside your head to get your azz out of the situation. He can’t have that much going for him he got to sell azz to make a living. Sounds live a very toxic relationship. They both sound like bad news.
droptopbm8
@ChrisK: wow are you being serious? I really hope not because domestic violence is never acceptable! SMH ????
droptopbm8
It’s a dysfunctional relationship @ best … combined with physical abuse drugs… allegedly and god knows what else! I don’t care how good looking or hung …? They are either both crazy ? or one is crazy and the other is very insecure to stay in any kind of abusive relationship… we create our own destiny … we teach people how to treat us if we allow it more than once! Actually quite sad I hope they both get whatever help they need … we all deserve to be happy ?
droptopbm8
@JerseyMike: exactly amen đ
droptopbm8
@jhon_siders: to the lawn mower bahaha and lmfaooooooo I wrecked a Porsche one of my exs he only cared if I was ok! Material items mean nothing…