One of the great things about being gay is that it gives us a bit of outsider status. We can step back from the main flows and expectations of society to decide where to connect back, and where to branch off. The downside, of course, is that mainstream society has been reluctant to welcome us until recently, and that battle isn’t yet won. But it’s clear that for many gay men, fatherhood is still a dream.
We wanted to hear from guys struggling to make that dream come true, so we asked Whisper to do some digging.
Here’s what they turned up: