Tom Ford: All Straight Men Should Try Bottoming At Least Once

Tom Ford

I think it would help them understand women, It’s such a vulnerable position to be in, and it’s such a passive position to be in. And there’s such an invasion, in a way, that even if it’s consensual, it’s just very personal. And I think there’s a psyche that happens because of it that makes you understand and appreciate what women go through their whole life, because it’s not just sexual, it’s a complete setup of the way the world works, that one sex has the ability to literally—and is expected to and is wanted to—but also there’s an invasion. And I think that that’s something most men do not understand at all.”—Designer/director Tom Ford, explaining to GQ why he thinks it would be beneficial to society if every straight man was penetrated at least once in their lifetimes.