Larry Paciotti, better known in the gay universe as Chi Chi LaRue, is seeking your money to address his drug and alcohol issues.
A noted porn director with three decades of experience, owner of Catalina Video, and celebrated drag performer/circuit DJ, LaRue has carved quite a name for himself as Chi Chi. In 2007 he was named one of Out magazine’s top 50 most influential people.
Which is why we find it a bit unusual that he’s launched a GoFundMe campaign to raise $40,000 for another two months at the Hazelden Betty Ford Center in Minnesota.
We know that widespread free access to amateur porn has hurt the big producers, but does his work really pay that poorly? Whatever his finances, is it fair he’s using his fame to fundraise for rehab when others don’t have that option? (Frankly, rehab should be universal and free for everyone.)
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LaRue has been at the facility for one month, the maximum time paid for by his insurance, and now that it’s run out, he’s looking to completely fund the remainder of his treatment through cash donations. As of this post, funding has reached $7,330.
According to the fundraising page:
We are happy to report that in the first 20 days, Chi Chi has fully embraced the program and is taking all of the necessary steps towards living a full sober life. Unfortunately, his family has been informed that after the first month, insurance will no longer cover any of the costs or expenses related to treatment. Without our help, Chi Chi will be forced to leave the facility in 7 days.
Even with all of the progress he has made, Chi Chi is still at the beginning of this journey and requires an additional 60 days in the program to get to the heart of the issue and increase his chances for success. We believe that his life depends on it.
Approximately $40,000 is needed to cover the expenses related to completing his treatment. Our goal is to raise enough to cover these expenses. Chi Chi has asked that any additional money raised be used to start a program/foundation that will help to fund treatment for others in need.
Even assuming he horribly mismanaged his once-lucrative career, is it possible that the only option (and according to the above description, it’s a life or death option) is to crowd fund?
We certainly don’t mean to downplay the seriousness of addiction, and we wish LaRue the absolute best towards a successful recovery. If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction and needs help finding affordable options, here is a good place to start.
Notable gifts have come from SF drag queens Peaches Christ and Sister Roma (who has also battled addiction), and $250 from Bruce Vilanch, who notes, tongue in cheek, “this is cheaper than your escort rate.”
This comment also popped up on the funding page, but has since been deleted:
This is a gross abuse of fame. Larry has plenty of personal resources available to secure this funding on his own. Even if doing so might involve pledging his stake in future production opportunities. In fact, that might just be the type of personal risk that could secure his sobriety down the road. The consequences of relapse might be too frighteningly real to make it worth it in that scenario. There are tons of more affordable options if the worst case outcome played out. I’m sure everyone would love to be able to go somewhere like Hazelden at everyone elses’s expense. And the manipulation of people’s desire to help those in need is unfair in this context. I would strongly encourage anyone tempted to contribute here to instead donate to a charity such as Natural High, Shatter Proof, the Herren Foundation or any other organization whose services are available to all people impacted by addiction, including Larry/Chi Chi. This has nothing to do with empathizing with his struggle, I wish him nothing but the best and have been personally impacted by the reality of addiction in many people close to me. And my opinion was solicited as soon as my money was, so don’t ask for people’s money if you can’t handle hearing what they think about it.
Should we help finance LaRue’s continued stay in rehab or just say no, no, no?
MarionPaige
in an interview with worldofwonder James St James on youtube, LaRue described himself as “a superstar and rich”. If you search Chi Chi LaRue on twitter, you get his dj account in which he promotes his gofundme campaign and the other accounts are for his store and porn studio.
BigG
This is disgusting. Typical addict behavior. There are plenty of cheaper options available for treatment vs betty ford. Also with insurance, chi chi can transition to therapy which will be approved, and na/aa. I’m a counselor and this is the standard. Asking the public to pay for high end treatment is wrong. The nerve.
MarionPaige
LaRue is liked in “the industry” because he promotes the industry. There is a great movie waiting to be made (which I suggested here to the guy trying to make that Joey Stefano movie) … BACK IN THE DAY, in the 80’s …
Two men in the gay adult industry made big decisions. William Higgins looked around at all of the bodies piling up in gay adult, found it too depressing and moved to Europe. Chi Chi LaRue, on the other hand, stayed in the biz.
Cam
Why do you need to ask what happened to his money, when you are also saying that he is in rehab and one month wasn’t long enough to get him through it.
Sounds like he snorted, Smoked, and shot-up most of his money.
Taskebab
Fucking America…they seriously need some proper health care over there…it’s insane that things like this are not covered by your insurance and Amercia still for some reason believes they are a civilized country…
redcarpet30
Can’t homegirl take out a loan? Arrange a payment plan? Hell, call Intervention and let them put it all on TV? Have mom or best friend cosign?
With that said, if someone like Chi Chi and wants to give their money, who am I to say they can’t? But know even with 90 days of rehab, there is still a good chance of relapse. So the 40 grand would be useless if Chi Chi’s not doing the work.
redcarpet30
@Cam: Yeah, it probably all went up his nose, or he wouldn’t be asking. It just doesn’t make sense to gofundme something if you already have the money. You’d have to be an asshole on a unbelievable level to do that (which could be the case here, but seems unlikely).
Spike
Why pay for it when you can get other suckers (fans of porn) to pay for it?!!?
Anyone that would contribute is just plain stupid.
Julian Hudson
Cough Zack Braff Cough
QJ201
Do your 30 days and then get your ass to meetings and/or therapy like most other people have to do in recovery.
Pedro E. Frota
Screw her !
mikelphx
The only people dumber than contributing to this fund are the morons who gave to that Indiana pizza place.
Al-beseeingusoon Walz
Yeah, how do we even she’s there!?!?! She could be using the money to support her habit!!!! Shameful, shameful…kickstartr shouldn’t even allow this! Ridiculous!
SeeingAll
@mikelphx: How about the people who gave to Rick Jones for his Delta, Utah, history of being a gaybashing victim ?
adrianjurado310
@MarionPaige: i know right
Glücklich
@Taskebab:
Chi Chi could also have just not got started on the drugs in the first place. Don’t wanna have to pay for rehab? Don’t get involved with shit that’ll send you there.
Looking forward to jwtraveler’s take on my advocating for personal responsibility (rolls eyes).
Jeff Langer
If people are stupid enough to donate…
petensfo
This appeal showed up on my Facebook page as well. I wish her well, but seriously… your addiction is telling you that you are terminally unique & better than. Suck it up, deal with your humility & take a seat in a 12-Step room. You’ll likely not be a high-bottom but you’ll hardly be the lowest bottom.
And bonus, you don’t like what you hear, I’m sure they’ll refund you your money.
Ricky Nichols
Bob LaBlah
I had to look twice at just who it was this article was referring to in order to be sure it was THAT Chi Chi Larue. Her studio should have made her a millionaire at least three times over. I doubt if she lived in a Bel Air mansion with maids, butlers, a helicopter pad along with a chauffeured six door Rolls Royce but I would not find it hard to believe where ever her house was it was nice and it was PAID for. I may have been wrong in my assumption. It sounds like she privately went bankrupt and moved into a skid row hotel based on how this article is sounding.
About five years or so ago right here on Queerty she was featured in an article showing the results of her diet. She was looking good but still had a way to go. And now, five years later, she is on here begging for financial help. I have always wondered HOW these studios are making money with the amount of free and amateur sites online. I don’t know who in their right mind is still paying to watch porn. The free stuff is better and home made. I guess this sends a message to the rest to either run the business and get their lives back into reality or face financial ruin like she is claiming, though I have doubts.
Ummmm Yeah
Soooo you didn’t realize crackheads aren’t good with money until now?
Hampton Robert
This is ridiculous.
KerryB
Make the fat fuck pay for his own treatment. Addiction is a LIFESTYLE CHOICE and he/she/it chose that lifestyle.
Chris Sledge
teddyzim
I find it very strange that she/he is asking for money to complete rehab. This is the same person that posted on his Facebook page the evils of using drugs, the evils of alcohol and that everyone should stop doing drugs. Come to find out he is using himself and who knows he might of even given actors some of the drugs that killed some of the stars in his movies. I find it ridiculous that he is asking for others to help him do this. I sympathize with his rehab and am glad that he is doing it but don’t ask for someone else to pay for the mistakes that you made while preaching the dangers of what you yourself was doing. I wish him luck in his recovery but I am not going to send you any money…..
Alistair Wiseman
I’m surprised the rehabilitation facility is allowing his request to continue.
Shouldn’t one have to bear the unfavorable consequences of one’s own actions? Including paying for one’s own therapy?
Billy Budd
I will NOT send her my precious money.
Clark35
Because like pretty much everyone in the porn biz he/she is broke, and practically one paycheck away from being homeless, despite the myth that they claim that they are rich or have money.
Mason Boggs
Jaime Enrique Sibauste
Paul Ramirez
jwtraveler
His movies are boring. Porn with no chemistry or passion.
Clark35
@jwtraveler: LOL what do you think porn is? Sex for pay, advertising male and female prostitutes who are drugged up with no chemistry or passion.
Chichi is disgusting as are all people who own porn companies or who are involved in porn are. All the money he/she has made has been by exploiting others-many of whom overdosed like Joey Stefano, or who have major drug issues of their own. She or he is so sleazy she/he makes the biphobic and misogynistic idiot Jasun Mark look like a nice guy.
Bill Cheek
Anthony Howard
Why does a man like Donald Trump need your help financing his campaign? Seriously. Dude’s website asks for contributions.
Chuck Turner
HOGWASH!!
Wilson W Wong
Like those muscle queens that wanted the community to crowdfund their two weddings.
tricky ricky
given the trail of dead drug addicted porn stars in cheechee’s wake you’d think ms. thing would know better. this is disgusting.
tricky ricky
@jwtraveler: you are so right! rote porn.
SeeingAll
LOL. He already made 7000+. Man, people just line up to throw money at anything, I swear. (I wonder if I can get them to send me to rehab, but only to this spa in Milan that deals with the issue).
John Paul Fryc
This really gets me annoyed. If people want to give money it’s their choice – but why would you give money to someone who has lived a life most of us could never dream of, been to amazing parties, travelled the world, hung out with beautiful people, indulged in drink/drunks/sex etc. – but now wants others to pay for the excesses of their lifestyle choices – UNBELIEVABLE!!!
Jeffrey Jeannotte
Hell to the no
Joshua Devin Byrd
Aimee Beutnagel
Patrick Cremeans
Calling Chi Chi LaRue a famous film director is like calling Kim Kartrashian a famous actress.
Bob LaBlah
@Clark35: Just curious but how do you feel about Andrew Christian and the jock straps and underwear he and his kind are forcing on the gay community? And the leather festival held in NYC and San Francisco every year? And last, why do you feel she did want to use you as a model?
Bob LaBlah
@Wilson W Wong: I laughed at your comment until I did a google search and saw that it was true. Is there ANYTHING that people won’t ask others to pay for nowadays. This is looking more and more like cyber-panhandling. Some states and municipalities have banned panhandling but I guess they figured out how to be squeegee men (those of you on the east/west coast I am sure remember them from the 1980’and 1990’s) on the internet. LOL! Oh these queens, these queens.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2359616/Would-crowdfund-wedding-Couple-ask-public-money-expensive-ceremony–invite-offered-return.html
Ian Guinta
Gross
Glücklich
@Bob LaBlah:
In New York squeegy guys are back. Thanks Bill De Blasio! I hope voters can his ass next round. It’s becoming a cesspool again with Times Square like a huge brown skidmark at the bottom of a toilet bowl. I’d avoid Times Square completely but Bloomberg’s, Thomson-Reuters’, and Morgan Stanley’s places are all right in the area.
Cam
Guess it’s obvious now how he lost all that weight.
Travis Garrett
Nice try trash!!!
Raffy Udinov
Doesn’t LaRue earn enough from directing gay porn films?
sfsilver
When I want to lose faith in humanity I need go no further than the comments section of any Gay news site where we demonstrate our most judgmental petty failings. I donated a small amount because Chi Chi made me laugh a few times, MC’d a few events I was at and made me shake my ass with joy and pleasure as she DJ’d at parties I attended. She needs my help, that’s all I need to know. I would like to think that if I’m in a situation where I need it I will be able to reach out to the people I’ve impacted and they will help me. I don’t need a detailed financial summary or to nitpick her choice of care facility, I just need to demonstrate a little compassion for someone who I believe has contributed to my community. I can spare the $25.
Mark J McWilliams
Having someone else pay for your rehab is typical of addicts. It’s alwAys someone else’s problem! Pay up girl it’s your life own it!!
SeeingAll
@sfsilver: I’m sure there are other charities who could genuinely use the $25, in greater ernest.
SeeingAll
@Glücklich: The rich gay and/or out-of-towner have destroyed all the greatness of Manhattan, that’s for sure. Watch the MOMA close nest.
jwtraveler
@Clark35: You need a good fuck, if you can find anyone willing to give it to you.
Clark35
@jwtraveler: LMAO nice attempt at trolling I’m not vers or a bottom; but you’re probably passive. I simply wrote the truth about porn that everyone already knows if they’ve been paying attention for the last 40 years.
Bob LaBlah
@Glücklich: WHAT!!!! Your kidding! Their actually back out there breaking off the wipers of cars that don’t tip them after they invited themselves to clean the windshield? That’s because the NYPD can’t stand him so they are going to let it go down.
I didn’t care for DeBlasio’s ol’ dead ass anyway but I sure as hell wouldn’t have elected Lota, Loda or whatever the hell his name was whom he ran against. NYC is just like the national map now. No leaders have been groomed to take over. I don’t know where the hell the country is headed sometimes when I look at the people who are running for office and those that squeezed by and got elected.
Donald Kirby
shameless. She probably just wants a new car.
Billy Budd
Chichi probably made some money during the early 00’s; But now she is dead.
Bob LaBlah
@Billy Budd: That’s what’s really sad. I’m sure she made some damn GOOD money during the late 1990’s and early 0’s because she was working with Tristan Paris, Brett Everett, Billy…….the list goes on but the stars she worked with made whoever hired them nothing but money. Internet porn was fresh and the copyright infringements were almost none existent because the free porn sites hadn’t really sprung up yet and those that had were shut down just as fast as they sprung up. With DVD sales and the porn sites offering streaming she should have made a small fortune. But making it and keeping it are two different stories. Forty grand shouldn’t be hard for her to come up with, you would think.
Love you, Chi chi. Wish you all the best. The only direction from here is up. Does anyone know what happened to Tony Davis or Tristan Paris?
Johnnie Quest
spiffy
Are the majority of you so harsh on her because she’s a porn director and a drag queen? Would you have been as critical if she’s in a different (i.e. more “respectable”) profession?
Yet I’m sure most of you have consumed porn at some points in your lives.
Or is it about the rehab?
Doing fund raising via GoFundMe is just the in thing to do right now… If not by social media there would have been other ways.
I still admire her for her stance against making bareback porn, when other studios and directors caved. I wish her well.
Clark35
@spiffy: No, because he/she is creepy hypocrite, a drag queen, just uses people to make porn and then dumps them like trash, enables people with their drug addictions by allowing people to show up to porn shoots high on all sorts of drugs, and she/he could just as easily go to a state run rehab/detox center instead of going to a joke rehab and expecting others to pay for it.
Glücklich
@Bob LaBlah:
“Forty grand shouldn’t be hard for her to come up with, you would think.”
No, it shouldn’t be. Refi the house if there is one. Or, at Chi Chi’s age (i.e. GROWN-UP) there should be an emergency fund sitting in a money market account, savings, under the floorboard…someplace where it remains liquid and easily accessible. Or take it out of the IRA and pay the penalties.
What’s that? No emergency fund? She smoked/snorted/shot it up? Oh! Well, face the consequences. Like I said in my earlier comment, don’t wanna pay for rehab? Don’t do shit that’ll land ya there.
And I wasn’t kidding about the NYC squeegy squad. Those halcyon Guiliani days are over (admittedly I’d never been to New York until Bloomberg became mayor).
SeeingAll
@Glücklich: Out-of-towners (they call themselves “transplants”, but to me they’ll always be out-of-towners or, if they’re really awful, “invaders”, can’t spell either, apparently.
Bob LaBlah
@Glücklich: What a shame you missed the party of the 1980’s. Talk about crime, dirt, grimy sidewalks, potholes large enough for a truck to fall into and get stuck (I drove an eighteen wheeler but never did) , sex and fun..oh, yes, and the squeegy squads on damn near every corner…….you should have been there. lol
I thought our self appointed emperor, Bloomburg, was doing ok until his last two years in office when he showed just how damn senile he really was. I had mixed feelings about the bikes (I found them irritating to have to drive around but soon got used to it) but the shit he started about the super sized drinks and his going completely overboard in regards to trying to sue the gun companies proved he needed something else to do with his time. I also condemn him for not settling that case with the Central Park Five after it became very apparent they were innocent boys who spent their developing years in prison for a crime they did not commit.
Wow! I still can’t get over how much money Chi chi went thru. Seriously, we have to be talking over a million dollars that was simply blown away. I wonder if she drove a Rolls? Escalade? Holy shit that was a lot of money. You are correct about being responsible for your actions. I guess she knows a state run facility doesn’t even come close to what she is in now but the one thing she will come out of this with after being around those in the state facility is how nice life did treat her as compared to the poor souls she will be surrounded by once she gets there. That should straiten out anyone who has a serious problem managing money. Yourself is the first person you have to learn to say “no” to or at least have a serious conversation about the needs of life and a budget to stick with. Fuck Excel. I put my monthly expenses down on paper with a pencil and start figuring from there. It works for me every month.
Glücklich
@SeeingAll:
I assume you felt the need to point out I misspelled the surname of the former mayor two administrations ago? Dammit, now the point of my comment is completely lost!
Also, I don’t live in New York. I *was* there for a few months on a work assignment earlier this year. So were I to move there, yes, I would be a transplant. How awful.
Glücklich
@Bob LaBlah:
State-run facility would still bill her unless she’s on Medicare. They might adjust down based on means testing but I think it’s only free if you’re forensic, i.e. in jail. At least that’s how it seems to work in California.
As to New York, yeah, kinda sorry I missed out on the dark-‘n-dirty urban depravity days. They were before my time. The stories sound pretty wild. But to see it go downhill the way it has been just this year is irritating. Hamstrung police force can’t keep up with the broken windows policing so while there’ve not been any Manson Family-type massacres or bombings or anything, the gross little quality of life crimes are piling up and making things really shitty.
I live in San Francisco and just got back beginning of July from a temp relo to NYC for work but even before that I’ve been going at least once a month on business for years. There has to be a middle ground between a theme park, like SF, and a warzone and I hope NYC gets to that point.
SeeingAll
@Glücklich: I know nothing of you misspelling any mayor’s name. Names shouldn’t count as far as spelling acumen goes anyway, because they can always be spelled differently. I still can never remember that Herman philosopher….Friedrich Nietsszche….? Anyway, no, I was referring to somebody you were talking to here.
Glücklich
@SeeingAll:
SORRY!!! (grimaces) Went on the defensive. Ironically the Manhattans have been flowing tonight so maybe that set me off. Please excuse my snark.
SeeingAll
But, yes, I was too young in the 80’s to be allowed to do much in NYC, but I could walk around and look when it was still a true metropolis. And since then it’s only gotten more and more expensve as it got more and more bland and boring.
SeeingAll
@Glücklich: That’s cool. Besides…look how I just spelled “German”, lol.
stanhope
@Pedro E. Frota: no thank you
spiffy
@Clark35: Sounds like you either know her personally, or you’re just speculating what is actually happening on her set. And what does her being a drag queen have anything to do with her career as a porn director?
You don’t like people who work in porn, and you don’t like drag queens. I get it.
PacoMDFACS
Typical addict behavior. Not owning his part and trying to put it on other people. Why can’t he/she go like everyone else to AA/NA/CNA and all the A’s around the corner from his/her house? Why a very expensive rehab center? If he/she can’t get sober in the rooms and any AA meeting, he/she won’t recover anywhere, no matter how expensive is the center. #EnoughSaid
PacoMDFACS
@Billy Budd: Well, he/she had money for alcohol and drugs though. So…
Clark35
@PacoMDFACS: Well said, he/she could just check into a state run rehab/detox center and go to AA/NA meetings as thousands of people do.
tommy10009
Who is their right mind would donate to this disgusting pig? I mean, this fat trash is almost a senior citizen and is still a drug addict??? Not to mention all the harm he has done by passing out drugs to young impressionable men to appear in his films. What a loser!
OhHellNo
In rehab you’re schooled that for sober to “take”,, you need to get away from the people and things that facilitated drug use. He’s still got a full schedule coming up of what – porn and DJing? Yeah, that’ll work. Hey, at least now we know how he stayed (way too) skinny. I guess bitching about bareback sex with a straw up your nose doesn’t work?