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8-Year-Old Writes Letter To Minnesotans, Asking To Keep His Family Together

Carter Gustafson, 8 3/4, has written to the people of Minnesota to appeal to their better angels: With a referendum on same-sex marriage fast approaching, brave little Carter, who has two mommies, wants to have a few things resolved—things most young people with opposite-sex parents take for granted.


1) Why does it matter if it’s a woman and a woman or a man and a man? What’s the difference?

2) If this passes, can we still be family?

3) Since this is illegal, can my moms get arrested?

4) Who makes these laws because they don’t make sense to me. For example, isn’t it love that makes a family?

Yes, Carter, that’s exactly what makes a family. But some people in your state (or those just passing through it) have very different ideas about what love is and believe in using judicial activism to rob others of their civil rights.

But that’s a lesson for when you get a little older.

On:           Aug 21, 2012
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    • Dumdum

      No child should have to be faced with such issues.When you are a kid one should only have to play,have fun and be loved.Growing up and facing challenges and the unfairness of life is hard enough without being subjected to fear prejudice and hatred. This is shameful!!!

      Aug 21, 2012 at 1:28 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Neo

      They harass us as breaking up families and being against togetherness and values.

      More evidence [how sad that we still have to say more and not “in the past” in 2012]that they are everything they hate is right here.

      Aug 21, 2012 at 2:52 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • SnakeyJ

      This doesn’t seem like something an 8 year old would write on their own. If it’s really written by an 8 year old, then his parents told him exactly what to state. Did Queerty confirm where this letter came from?

      Aug 21, 2012 at 5:04 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • unclemike

      @SnakeyJ: I’ve been a teacher for over 20 years–this sounds exactly like an 8-year-old’s written thoughts.

      The topic may not have been on the mind of a kid who has hetero parents, but I guarantee this topic is well-discussed in his own family. His parents might have prompted him with questions, like, “What would you like to ask them?” but it doesn’t sound as if they coached him on the words at all.

      Aug 21, 2012 at 5:53 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • MK Ultra

      That’s why we need to snatch the term “family values” right out from the claws of the nazi far-right.
      They’ve put an Orwellian twist on it so no it means the opposite – ripping families apart as evidenced by this poor kid.
      We need to appropriate family values to ourselves.
      Family values are gay values
      Gay values are family values.
      Bring these families to the forefront.

      Aug 21, 2012 at 6:23 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • hephaestion

      Whatever happened to Minnesota? It used to be so progressive, and now it’s elected officials are more ignorant than Mississippi’s.

      Aug 21, 2012 at 7:10 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Xanderer

      Right on kiddo! Wish I was as smart as you when I was 8 years old.

      Aug 25, 2012 at 6:27 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • captty1701

      I don’t understand why the law makers think they know what is best for us.

      Sep 24, 2012 at 11:50 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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