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Joe Mannetti, 49
New London, Connecticut
Mr. International Daddy Bear 2009
Holder of numerous bear-pageant titles—including Mr. Southern California Cub 2006, Mr. Los Angeles Bear 2008 and Mr. Southern California Bear 2008—Joe Mannetti has long been a community fixture. An actor, public speaker, counselor and activist, his philanthropic pursuits include raising money for the trans community, addiction-recovery services and people with AIDS.
Mannetti first gained notoriety in the early 2000s as bear porn star Joe Falconi (a gig that cost him his job with with Gays and Lesbians Initiating Dialogue for Equality, ironically). More recently, Mannetti has popped up in indie films like 2010’s BearCity and 2011’s The Summer of Massacre. While initially reluctant to compete in bear contests, Mannetti says the opportunity to raise money and awareness for LGBT organizations was enough to make him give it a shot. “Putting the spotlight on something bigger than our furry pecs was what motivated me,” he notes. “Although there’s no denying that I worked out hard before each contest!”
As for his insider’s take on the world of bear pageants? “It’s all glamour, fame, fur, sex, and backstabbing worthy of the crappiest reality show,” he shares. “Seriously, I think that a title, in and of itself, represents nothing. It’s what the individual chooses to do with the spotlight that any title offers them that make it stand for something.”
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jason
I don’t consider them heroes at all. I consider them fetishists with a huge vanity streak. They exploit the misery of cows for the purpose of an event and an “award” from someone whose mouth drops leather purses when he speaks. I have no respect for the participants or their fetishes.
Leather fetishists should stop shrouding their vanity streaks in the dignity of the gay rights notion.
TMO
@Jason: MMM MMM this bacon cheeseburger sure is delicious!
jason
TMO,
Yes, I eat meat. But that’s not vanity. Humans eat meat out of necessity.
These leather queens are all about saying “look at me, I said look at me, dammit”. A cow had to die to serve their egos.
MikeE
@jason: there’s one particular cow I can easily imagine going the way of the dodo.
Max
@jason:
True, but as the article points out they’re using their vanity and drive for self-promotion for noble ends. Heroes? Perhaps not. Anti-heroes? I can go with that.
SteveC
There’s no such thing as a ‘leather community’.
Having a fetish for leather is not a sexual orientation.
Still though – those folk are heroes. They are LGBT heroes who have a fetish for leather.
Eric in Chicago
I would add Mr. Michigan Leather 2009 and current IML judge Dave Watt as a “Hero” in the leather community. He not only works for an HIV/AIDS organization but created MR FRIENDLY to reduce the stigma of HIV and encourage testing. (you can join Mr Friendly on FB). He travels all over the country trying to fight the Stigma of HIV. Beyond that he’s the nicest (and hottest) man you’ll ever meet. He’s awesome sauce.
Eric in Chicago
@jason: You are a sad judgemental person. Nothing about what you said is true. The increase in neoprene and rubber at leather events is also a fact. Just an FYI. There are plenty of masculine men in the leather community. I know a lot of them. I dare you to say it to their faces.
Eric in Chicago
@SteveC: If you don’t think there is such a thing as a leather community then you don’t know people in the leather community. I haven’t seen a group that gives back or supports one another as much as the leather community does.
Daez
@jason: The vast majority of leather is taken as a byproduct from the meat industry. There is no reason to raise cattle just for leather. Unless you are also vegan.
Oh, ok
Jason is Cam and Villa. Just a sad troll with multiple personalities saying dumb things for attention.
jason
I’m sorry but these leather events are often masks for unfettered sexual activity. I suspect many of the participants look forward to their hotel room trysts as much as they do to winning the competition.
And, please, don’t give me this bull about how concerned some of these leather guys are about AIDS. LOL. That’s like an arsonist putting out a statement about the need to reduce kindling. It’s not believable.
Many of these leather guys actually create the conditions which cause illnesses.
shannon
BULLSHIT!! IF YOU LOOK IN THE “LEATHER COMMUNITY” —NONE— TO FEW OF THE GUYS LOOK LIKE THIS!! THEY ARE OLD…FAT….GROSS…PERVERTED….NASTY
Eric in Chicago
@shannon: Obviously you haven’t been to IML in Chicago – there are so many hot men you don’t know where to look first!!!
Eric in Chicago
@jason: What’s wrong with people looking forward to hotel room trysts? Nothing. Winning the contest is about so much more than that – just read the experience of anyone who has won. You don’t know what you’re talking about. Your satement about leather and AIDS is really ignoranat as well – lots of Leather sex include things that have nothing to do with exchanging fluids or risk of HIV/AIDS.
Mike
LMAO IML and the “Leather Community” are all about vanity, how many leather contests you win as a sash queen, and about how much money you spend on expensive leather clothing that you wear in contests.
A lot of men who are into leather and/or BDSM such as myself find the contests like IML to be a total joke and they pretty much always have been.
Most people who go to IML could care less about the contest but they just want to hook up. If they practice safer sex or decide not to that is their choice.
IML Veteran
I agree with comment #16 since it’s true.
I’ve been to IML a few times over various decades and IML/leather and such events are not about leather and or fetishes/kinks or consensual BDSM but about primadonna sash queens on stage wearing very expensive pieces of leather, and it’s always been about hooking up first and foremost.
Martin
LMAO not surprisingly IML is not the type of event where gay and bisexual men who are actually masculine and into leather go to. Then again many people who are into leather and/or BDSM such as myself find leather contests to be a total joke.
Peter
Eric in Chicago-The leather “community” does not give back. Sure they may have very expensive cover charges that they claim go to charities or non-profit orgs but if you’ve ever researched where most of the money that gets donated to charities and non-profit orgs goes very little if any actually goes to the people that these groups are set up and supposed to help and most of it goes to the people who are in charge of these charities and orgs.
Chuck Renslow owns a bath house, makes lots of money from this bath house and from IML and his bath house freely allows people to bareback and use meth.
Tyler
@Eric-You have no idea what you’re writing about. I have met A LOT of men who go to IML and they tell me how they like to do it bb/raw or have anal sex without condoms and a lot of them are into meth, and fist or get fisted up the ass without gloves and could care less about their own sexual health let alone the sexual health of all the men they do it raw with.
Jeff
Damn Danny Logan isn’t even 30 and he’s HIV+ and has been for awhile, that’s just sad. If he wanted to be a bug chaser and intentionally become HIV+ which is what happened that’s his choice to be an idiot.
Secondly he’s a drag queen, not masculine at all, and shouldn’t be in any sort of leather contest.
Donald
WTF is a woman or Tra nny like “Tyler McCormick” doing entering in IML?
I guess this now means that if I or any other men want to enter leather contests for women we have every right to do so now. 😉