If you are married or dating, in most cases, your wife or girlfriend has not struggled with SSA and will not understand your recovery process. It is up to you to help educate her about your needs…Tell her, also, ‘I need to be the man of the house. Let me be the man of the house.’ Dominant women only demasculinize men. A man has got to be the lion of the den. Not in an abusive manner though.”

—  National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH) Scientific Advisory Board member and now noted misogynist, James Phelan, discusses the importance of sexual dynamics in his book, Practical Exercises For Men In Recovery Of Same-Sex Attraction, via Truth Wins Out.

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