Do you ever fantasize about being raped? Taking advantage of an unconscious person who’s too drunk to say “no”? Or getting peed upon?
If so, you’re far from alone.
According to a new study, 30 percent of men fantasize about having sex against their wills, 23 percent secretly want to hump an unconscious person, and 10 percent would like to be used as a urinal.
A group of researchers at the University of Montreal in Quebec, Canada uncovered this information after speaking with over 1,500 adults about their deepest, darkest sexual fantasies, and they just published their findings in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
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“Clinically, we know what pathological sexual fantasies are: they involve non-consenting partners, they include pain, or they are absolutely necessary in deriving satisfaction,” lead author Christian Joyal said in a statement released by the university. “But apart from that, what exactly are abnormal or atypical fantasies?”
799 men and 718 women participated in the study. Of the sample, 85.1 percent identified as heterosexual, 3.6 percent identified as homosexual, and the rest identified as somewhere in between.
Respondents were asked a total of 55 statements that delved into the nature and intensity of their wildest bedroom fantasies. From beastiality, to spanking, to having sex with a stranger on the metro, and more.
Respondents then rated each statement on a scale of 1 through 7, with 1 meaning they strongly disagreed with the statement and 7 meaning they strongly agreed. After collecting and analyzing all the data, researchers grouped each fantasy into one of four categories: “rare,” “unusual,” “common,” and “typical.”
Rare meant that 2.3 percent or less of respondents reported the fantasy; unusual meant 15.9 percent or less reported it; common meant between 50 percent and 84 percent reported it; and typical meant 84.1 percent or more reported it.
Hooking up in an usual place, having sex with someone other than one’s spouse, and bumping uglies with a celebrity were among some of the most typical fantasies.
Engaging in a threesome or having sex with a prostitute both ranked higher for men than for women. Interestingly, women ranked higher than men when it came to fantasizing about having sex with more than three people at a time, as well as being tied up to obtain sexual pleasure.
Check out the official findings of the study to see where you fantasies fit in:
h/t: Business Insider
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Daniel
this article is very strange. Until now, I can’t even sleep well although it happened 20 years ago.
Saint Law
My fantasies involve a trained seal, a jacuzzi full of custard and the Nubian male voice choir. But I didn’t see it listed.
hyhybt
According to a new study, 30 percent of men fantasize about having sex against their wills, 23 percent secretly want to hump an unconscious person, and 10 percent would like to be used as a urinal.
I can only hope it’s just Queerty, and not researchers, who see enjoying imagining a thing as the same as wanting it to happen for real.
Stache99
@Daniel: That’s it? Your not going to tell us what the event even was. What happened 20 years ago ??
jkb
@Saint Law: you sound hot. Where you at?
Sebizzar
I have met way so many guys who are into piss play, that it makes me feel like I’m the weird one for not being into it lol :/ I just don’t get it, what is so sexy about being peed on, or peeing on someone? Then again, I guess most fantasies/fetishes are unexplainable.
Sebizzar
@Sebizzar: way too many*
Tracy Pope
@Saint Law: You had me at the Jacuzzi filled with custard.
A long time ago (in my young and stupid days) I woke from a heavy night of partying with my hand being guided up and down on the very erect penis of a guy who decided to take advantage of my self-induced stupor. It didn’t go well for his face or my police record. Moral of the story? Trying to make some fantasies a reality can land you in the hospital with a broken jaw and/or jail for assault.
rand503
20 percent of men fantasize about gay sex. Now that is interesting!
rand503
And 26 percent fantasize about giving a blow job! calling Tiny Perkins!
Jacob23
So, only 20.6% of males have fantasized about having homosexual sex. But 26.8% of males have fantasized about “giving fellatio.” And 45.2% of males say they have fantasized about “having sex with 2 men.” Maybe I’m missing something, but I am pretty sure that when a guy is fantasizing about giving fellatio or having sex with 2 men, he is fantasizing about having homosexual sex.
Harley
@Jacob23: a lot of straight men don’t believe a blow job is sex, just assisted masterbation. So I can see why the discrepancy.
bottom72
I often fantasize about being taken against my will and enjoy being used as a urinal.