Photos: Foxy Older Gentlemen Remind Us That Age Is Just A Number

Last time in Homo Erotica, we shared our fondness for men with bellies. This week we thought we’d talk about our love for older gentlemen.

There’s no shortage of names for attractive guys over 40: DILF, daddy, silver fox, papi. The allure of the older man is hardly new. They tend to be more secure, more laid back, and — let’s be honest — they usually know their way around the bedroom, having had ample time to hone their craft.

With 40 being the new 30, and 50 being the new sexy, it’s no surprise May-December relationships have become such common practice in the gay community, just look at couples like Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black or Matt Bomer and Simon Halls.

Scroll down to see pictures of foxy older gentlemen, and let us know what you think in the comments section below: Is age just a number?

Photo credit: SaltPepperDads

Photo credit: Holy DILF Batman!

Photo credit: Daddies For All Time

Photo credit: Black Daddy Issues

Photo credit: SaltPepperDads

Photo credit: My Dream Daddies

Photo credit: Museum of Man

Photo credit: Hairy Men of Color

Photo credit: Daily Dose of DILF

Photo credit: DaddyAddicktion

Photo credit: SaltPepperDads

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Photo credit: KJBear

Photo credit: Holy DILF Batman!

Photo credit: Living To Read

Photo credit: MuscledOver40

Photo credit: My Dream DILFS

Photo credit: Hairy, Masculine, Mature, Men

Photo credit: SaltPepperDads

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  • Sweet Boy

    I’d take a hot DILF over 50 than a dumb kid in his 20 who thinks will be in his 20’s forever

  • vive

    Papi doesn’t mean daddy. It just means “guy” or “dude.” Common misconception among English-speakers.

  • SpunkyBunks

    @Sweet Boy: Amen! If you mess with a young guy in his early 20s, don’t give him your real phone number if you can help it. He will text you to death, nonstop, forever!

    I’m 37 and I attract a bunch of young guys. But they don’t know how to chill and relax. Give me a nice, patient daddy any day over these punks!

  • Tackle

    A guy in his 40s & 50s can definately be as sexy as a guy in his 20s.
    But I’m not so sure about older guys being more secure. Due to the gay culture being so youth obsessed and placing such a value on it, I see many older men being insecure about their age. Example: lying about age on online profiles.

  • PeterPiperBoy

    @vive: Who really cares what ‘Papi’ means in Spanish! It still applies to these guys!!! I have to say ‘Papis’ are really hot as hell!!!

  • TinoTurner

    Guys over 40 can be hot but none of these guys are

  • Louis

    Roman Wright is the gorgeous guy in Hairy Men of Color.

    Hes also a gay porn star and has been in numerous porn videos.

    Had a crush on him for years.

  • Sweet Boy

    @vive: You must have learned Spanish with Rosetta Stone…Papi en español significa “daddy”, de la misma manera que mami significa “mommy”..es una palabra que usan los niños con mucha frecuencia y ahora su uso se ha generalizado y tiene una connotación más sexual.

    Que vivan los papis !!!

  • vive

    @Sweet Boy, aprendí castellano en España, donde la palabra “papi” no se usa, y los niños no dicen “papi” sino “papá,” pero en mi experiencia en México “papi” significa lo mismo que “tío” en España, es decir “guy” o “dude”. Tal vez sea distinto en otros lugares.

  • vive

    @Sweet Boy, in any case, it is not used for an older guy as the writer of the article seems to think. A guy you like can be your papi if he is the same age or younger than you.

  • vive

    I meant to say papi does not mean an older guy – it can be used for any guy.

  • mgmchicago

    @Tackle: I can’t’ speak for all older men, but IMHO many older men are more laid-back and comfortable with sex and enjoy a more sensual, attentive style of sexual expression. That means better kissing, better BJs, and a more satisfying sexual experience overall.

    However, to share this experience you first must attract a partner. If you are cruising online, age is an important part of the “checklist.” I usually knock about 5 years off my actual age just to stay in the game.
    I’m not insecure about my age – but potential sex partners are – and if I go looking for sex, I want to actually get it. I keep my body toned with diet and exercise and no one can tell that I am actually a few years older. For a trick, who cares – if it develops into something more, you can always come clean later.

    Yeah, most of the guys in the photos above are pretty sexy, but they do look like they were above average when they were younger. Good facial structure is for life and if you keep up with your body in the gym, you can stay pretty hot until at least around 60.

  • biscuit_batter

    yum! sexy comes in all ages, sizes and races:)

  • Horse Lips

    I totally agree that older guys are super hot (especially since I’m 53 now), but that dude that has his polo shirt tucked into his underwear doesn’t belong here. He’s handsome, but, c’mon, he has his polo shirt tucked into his underwear!

  • BrokebackBob

    The picture above the Holy DILF Batman! photo credit hopefully knows that he can generate spontaneous maile orgasms.

  • mz.sam

    @TinoTurner: You got that shit right, Sherlock!

  • mz.sam

    @Horse Lips: Yeah, that some weird shit goin’ on.

  • Mike

    Is #3 Ed Asner? LOL

  • bottom72

    that first guy is so hot he can fill me with his knowledge.

  • spencer87

    The 4th one from the top?!? I want him inside me now.

  • Billy Budd

    I am more attracted to very young boys (over 18), but I have to admit that the quality of the sex is not so good. An experienced guy is much better in bed than a little twink.

  • JennyFromdabloc

    A few of these guys are really hot! Especially #11. Why include the tucked-in polo pic?

  • RealMenRealLife

    #13 (guy getting sprayed by a hose) is a ripped off photo. Yes, Photo credit: kjbear (http://kjbearhug.tumblr.com) is a picture thief. I did that photo and others at: Facebook.com/realmenreallife and Realmenreallife.tumblr.com

  • Niall

    Aside a few, I’ve seen much, much better

  • Blackceo


    There are a variety of meanings. For me, papi means a sexy Latino guy with swagger regardless of age.

  • Kangol


    Papi is a colloquial term meaning “Daddy.” It comes from “Papa,” just like “Mami” is a colloquial version of “Mama.” So it can mean older guys, but also any–especially masculine, daddy-like–guy. Your meaning is your meaning; the broader meaning is also correct.

    Lots of DILFs/hot guys here, including at least one I know, and he gets better with age, that’s for sure!

  • bufffuzz

    With age, comes wisdom and to those who say, dilf’s aren’t hot, they must be both crazy and blind. Yes sir, daddy men sizzle under the sheets.

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