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The Supreme Court’s Long Journey Toward Marriage Equality

supreme courtIn retrospect, today’s Supreme Court decision looks inevitable. The justices dodged whether marriage equality was a federal right last time out, only to see court after court strike down marriage bans in multiple states, using the very reasoning the justices outlined. To his eternal irritation, Antonin Scalia called it right in 2013, when he said that the other shoe would have to drop.

Today it did.

Ruth Bader Ginsburg suggested in 2013 that the Court was intentionally slow-walking the marriage equality ruling so that it didn’t get in front of popular opinion. Well over half of Americans are fine with marriage equality. The justices had no good reason to wait any longer.

The ruling now takes its place with the other two great decisions: Lawrence v. Texas, which struck down sodomy laws, and Romer v. Evans, which struck down laws that barred nondiscrimination protections. In a relatively short period of time, the Court has systematically removed barriers to equality and recognized the community’s right to equal status under the law. Appropriately, today’s decision came on the anniversary of those two groundbreaking rulings.

And it’s done so with remarkable eloquence. Once again, Anthony Kennedy has pulled out all the stops in his opinion. Kennedy’s mentor in law was a gay man, and the feeling with which Kennedy writes strongly suggests that his personal experience has created a deep well of empathy from which to draw.

“No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family,” Kennedy wrote for the majority. “[The challengers] ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right.”

It’s not that the opinion is perfect. For all its language about the value of same-sex families, the majority opinion doesn’t go quite so far as conferring the same kind of legal status to gay issues that it does to race and gender.

As for the dissent, it’s always easy to make fun of Antonin Scalia’s metaphorical flights of fancy. But don’t forget that his dissent in Windsor was used by several federal courts, such as Utah, to strike down marriage bans. The dissent is not just the losing side’s concession speech. It’s a blueprint of legal reasoning that can be used in other cases. In particular, Scalia seems to be writing with an eye to bolstering religious liberty challenges to marriage equality.

The religious right has already indicated it won’t take this decision, um, lying down. There are bound to be multiple challenges on religious liberty grounds. The court fights will keep on going for a while.

With such a huge victory, it’s easy to become complacent—what Michelangelo Signorile calls “victory blindness.” The fact remains that we are now in the screwy position of being able to marry nationally while still facing the risk of being fired in 29 states for being gay.

It’s also easy to lose sight of the fact that not everyone benefits equally from the decision. In particular, as quickly as things are moving, the transgender community is at a much earlier stage of popular understanding, let alone acceptance. Gender is the next civil rights revolution, and now the marriage equality has been achieved it’s time to support the T in LGBT.

None of that takes away from today’s decision, however. Yes, there’s still plenty of work to be done. But now is a time for celebration. For all the couples that pushed the issue, for all the attorneys who fought for decades, for all the activists who organized protests, today is a cause for rejoicing. It’s also a time to remember everyone who has since passed who would have dearly loved to have seen this victory.

Retroactively, at least, the Court just validated their relationships.

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117 Comments

  • Edric Kwan

    Love conquers all!

  • Jim Long

    Supreme Court…..THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

  • Giancarlo85

    It was a 5-4 decision in favor! We won! Not quite the 6-3 I was hoping for, but this is a hard fought win.

  • Arcamenel

    Now we can focus on more important things like ENDA and working to fight against LGBT homelessness of our youth.

  • Realitycheck

    Wonderful news, and now when some one say “I do not support…..”
    we can say back, “who cares you lost and nobody needs your permission
    to get married.”

  • Glücklich

    High fives all around! Thank god I’m “working from home” today so I can cut out early for the inevitable happy hours up Hell’s Kitchen way.

  • Cagnazzo82

    Antonin Scalia… shame (ding!), Samuel Alito.. shame (ding!), Clarence Thomas… shame (ding!), Chief Justice John Roberts (who has gay siblings)… double shame, (ding! ding!)…

    That being said, thank you Justice Kennedy, for having the sense and objectivism some of your colleagues clearly lack.

    Great day for America, and great day for history. The battle was hard fought, but in the end the right side won. We all won!!!

  • TransParency_

    Can we go back to really important things like violence against transgender folks and gender-non conforming individuals and our right to access places based on our identity?. Cis Homos have had the right to form relationships for ever, even if they couldn’t use the word marriage, there were legal ways for them to be protected. That is not the case for Transpeople and their struggles. Will Cis Homos continue to hijack OUR movement at our expense, or will they finally consider us equals?

  • Giancarlo85

    @TransParency_: Give us a break. Do you realize this ruling was important to many couples? And no there weren’t legal protections for SAME SEX couples until recently. Get a grip please. And as a gender nonconforming person, I am telling you to please shut up. You do more damage to the movement than transphobic and homophobic people combined.

  • mikelphx

    YASSSS!!!!!!

  • 1EqualityUSA

    Equality is inevitable. I’ve got to go walk our dogs. Love you all. Let’s make sure Republicans never get another Supreme Court Justice on the bench ever again. Gotta go, my pack is waiting for me.

    What’s that saying? Americans can always be counted on to do the right thing, after exhausting all other possibilities…

  • 1EqualityUSA

    MarionPaige???

  • 1EqualityUSA

    NCLR???

  • Glücklich

    @TransParency_:
    Can you back under a rock?

    Jesus fuckin’ christ I am so tempted to dump my Queerty account and start a new one called “Cis_Homo_Pride” just for your benefit. Sounds like the only thing stopping you from forming a relationship is your wah-wah perpetual offense at, well, everything. Are you from Berkeley or something? It’s not your trans-ness that’s repelling people, it’s your repellent personality.

    If you’re the spokesperson – oh, sorry spokesperSUN- for YOUR movement, you can keep it.

  • Glücklich

    @Glücklich:
    Trans-whiny

    Can you GO BACK under a rock…shit I hate when I make proofreading mistakes

  • Blazipitous

    Well, I know for a fact there’s no such thing as love between two men. It’s just sexual attraction. You know, “I wonder how this will turn out if I give it a try”. It feels good and suddenly “I’m in love”. I know can fuck a man, but I know for a fact I’ll never fall in love with one. It’s too … volatile. Only a woman can anchor and ground a man. It is what it is. We all know gay men are wild animals; not even slightly tamed. And that’s not a compliment! Good luck with your doomed marriages. You’re gonna need it!

  • Calebspapi

    @TransParency_: I’ve read a lot of your vile posts and just ignore you as an uneducated individual in need of compassion more than criticizing. But you have shown me the error of my ways. You claim victimhood as you attack every gay male because they are not trans. This is not how to make friends or allies. This is how you make others rune out to your issues and concerns. This is how you alienate those that could assist you. But you would rather harm than help. Your comments are not insightful, rather hateful and inaccurate.

    The Stonewall riots were NOT initiated by the trans population, which did not exist in 1969. Rather, it was a dive bar, run by the mob, with patrons considered dregs by white gays. This means old guys, blacks, Puerto ricans, hustlers butch lesbians, and drag queens. No trans.
    This is a movement made from the misfit toys.

  • darian

    @TransParency_: All good things will come in time. No one thinks this is the end of the very long road for equality. That doesn’t mean we can’t stop and celebrate the milestones that have been achieved.

  • Deborah Adams

    It’s long past time that they made the right decision. Better late than never, I guess. Yah!!!!

  • Dakotahgeo

    It took awhile but the journey was worth it. Excuse me, I have to run out and get some wienies and marshmallows for a immolation event. Some goofy right wing Pastor was going to set himself on fire if the SCOTUS ruled for marriage equality. I just gotta see this. I hope he doesn’t scream, shout, and run about!

  • Bauhaus

    “The Fourteenth Amendment requires a State to license a marriage between two people of the same sex and to recognize a marriage between two people of the same sex when their marriage was lawfully licensed and performed out-of-State.”

    Game. Set. Match.

    It’s impossible to articulate my many emotions and thoughts. Suffice it to say: felicitations, brethren!

  • Dakotahgeo

    I’m sick and tired of seeing this “Do you like me?” advert? If I see it once more, I will unlike you in an instant! Okay, Queerty? Geez, Louise… how infantile can one blog get??!

  • tdh1980

    Great! Now if I could only find a date…

  • Blackceo

    Wow!!!! Just wow!!!! What an amazing week for humanity and civil rights!! Affordable Care Act upheld, key aspect of the Fair Housing Act upheld, and now Marriage Equality wins!!!! It’s the law of the land. Love wins!!!! So proud to be an American!!! Gonna be an extra special pride celebration with my fiancé in NY this weekend!!! Thank you to all those who fought the good fight on this issue. Discrimination is still an issue because you can still be fired and refused service. This doesn’t end homophobia but this is an amazing victory. Wonderful words from Preisdent Obama in the Rose Garden. His legacy has been truly cemented this on these issues and it would not have happened had McCain or Romney won.

    Happy Pride Queerty!!! I’m getting turnt up this weekend!!!!

  • TransParency_

    @Calebspapi: Your arrogance is only beat by your appalling ignorance. It was TRANSWOMEN, particulary TWC who led the way at Stonewall and the Gay Liberation movement, you idiot(does Sylvia Rivera ring a bell?). Perhaps if you weren’t so blinded by your CIS HOMO PRIVILEGE, you’d make a little more sense.

  • Calebspapi

    @TransParency_: Read a book, and live in the city it started, where the last survivors show up at the gay center and you might learn something. Though I doubt it.

    She did not identify as trans, as it did not exist and there are conflicting accounts of where she was at the time of the riots and the aftermath. The arrogance you claim is called knowledge of facts as a civil rights attorney and historian. When your resume matches mine, then speak. Until then stay in a child’s place.

    And just a tip, once you begin name calling, it is evidence of the fault in your argument and the insecurity of your intelligence. So respond all you want, but you no deserve my attention. Consider yourself dismissed.

  • Glücklich

    @TransParency_:
    Just for that I’m going to REVEL in every advantage of my CIS HOMO PRIVILEGE, with my legally protected marriage that extends all of those delicious expensive benefits and protections to my husband. And my job where even if I got fired for being gay (which ain’t gonna happen) they’d have to pay me a TON of money and vest all of my stock to leave. And using restrooms, changing rooms, etc. specifically allocated to my type WITHOUT debate.

  • Chris

    Good God, accept this victory for what it is — huge; on the scale of Brown V Board of Education.

    Talk to the hand those of you who would dismiss or diminish it by claiming there are other “more important” things to worry about; there may be or maybe not.

    Go away those of you who would debate whether it’s predicated on white privilege. I know lots of people of color will also make use of marriage and its protections.

    Stop with the CIS/TRANS debate, already. This decision applies to ALL of us.

    And after tonight, hung over and all, let’s go back to the various other chunks of unfinished business that face us, individually and as a group of diverse interests. But for today, smile — a whole lot; and for tonight, celebrate — a whole lot.

    This is huge. Let’s celebrate!

  • Atomicrob

    Thanks to all the countless individuals and couple who fought for this day. We may never know all the stories, but we’ll know your small victories collectively made a world of difference. All the best!

  • RobvR

    I’m not an American and SSM was well established in my country before I even came out, but still I have to shed a tear reading this. CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL YOU AMERICANS!!!!

  • Mikah

    A monumental step forward! What a historical day.

  • Giancarlo85

    @Calebspapi: For one, both you and Transparency are wrong. You engage in historical revisionism (your claims about trans people are not true), but Transparency is also wrong in the way the troll handles others and tears down people.

  • Cam

    @TransParency_:

    Do you really think that we don’t remember you? You come on here any time there is a posting and try to cause a fight by pretending to be transgendered.

    Nice try.

  • nature boy

    @Blazipitous: You have no power here! Begone, before somebody drops a house on you, too!

  • omacdonald

    This is great news.
    I sincerely hope everyone can now peacefully settle down with the one they love.
    I also am hopeful there won’t be many shallow gay couples who do 20 minute Las Vegas style weddings a la Britney and waste this hard fought victory.
    To gays, this is such a long road and hard fought victory that marriage should truly be treated as sacred.
    Congratulations and love trumps today!
    Peace.

  • Maude

    @Cam:

    Cam, There you go again. You seem always to be accusing people of being someone else…..and you’re always wrong!

    You accused me of being someone else a few months back, and after that, someone else.

    When you attack with stupid false accusations, you always say ‘we’ instead of ‘I’.
    That shows a lack of self esteem.

    You’re proof of the fact that, “You can’t fix stupid”.

  • Billy Budd

    Fuck the religious right. The non-conformists win.

  • Shannon1981

    As the article outlined, we still have a lot of work to do, but today, LET’S CELEBRATE!

    Next step: ENDA and homelessness in LGBTQ youth.

  • DarkZephyr

    Marriage Equality is the law of the land!!!!

    @Maude: Sorry Charlie, several of us agree with Cam 100%. “We” is quite accurate. Heck, even as I read your post you make me think of a couple people you sound *EXACTLY LIKE*

  • mezzacanadese

    Here in San Francisco, we are ecstatic about the ruling! Just in time for Pride parade Sunday!

  • Shannon1981

    @TransParency_: This is important, too. If you don’t think this is important, you really know nothing. Ever see the move Bridegroom? That is what happens when gay marriage is illegal. A spouse is a perfect stranger to the deceased love of his or her life.

    If you don’t think this is a victory, I don’t know what to say to you.

    I understand and appreciate the bitterness that many transgender people feel at the fact that their LGB counterparts have left them behind, and even thrown them under the bus, in our march forward. However, comments like those in this thread are not the way to gain and keep allyship. In fact, it’s this sort of thing that is making me turn more attention back to my own gay struggle and letting bi and trans people fight their own battles. This anti-homosexual sentiment as of late is tiring. In trying to “speak up” in such a hostile way, you’re turning off real allies.

    For the record, I spent countless hours volunteering in a trans advocacy center, advocating for everything from easy access to hormones to prison reform to fighting against anti-trans violence. I did it not because it’s my personal fight, but because it is the right thing to do.

    However, that being said, sentiments like what you have expressed here have come at me, all the “cis homo privilege” and “marriage isn’t important” stuff- that just makes me want to continue my own gay fight. In doing what you do, you alienate allies.

  • Glücklich

    @mezzacanadese:
    I wish I was home for this. Where would I celebrate? Toss up between lobby bar at the St Regis or The Blackbird. House of Shields? That’s on my way home at least.

  • yaletownman

    Though my spouse and I are American, while we were living in Canada we flew down to California during the window of opportunity Same sex couples had to marry after the first prop 8 ruling deeming it unconstitutional. We wanted to be supportive and have those protections if ever we did move back to the states. Well, we did move back in 2011 and we recently filed our amended federal tax returns for the years we have lived here where we combined our forms and filed married. We just received our first years tax refund of $8,000.00, $500.00 of which is interest. Marriage can be more than a piece of paper.

  • gaym50ish

    Governor Huckabee is already threatening a constitutional amendment to reverse the decision. Good luck with that! George W. bush tried that a long time ago.

    Even if such an amendment were passed in the Congress, getting the required three-fourths of the state legislatures to ratify it would be a significant hurdle. Just ask the proponents of the Equal Rights Amendment for women, who have reintroduced it many times since the 1970s and have failed to get it ratified within the time limit.

  • gaym50ish

    Actually, I thought the Republican candidates would be HAPPY about this, because it removes gay marriage as an issue in the 2016 campaign. Now they can avoid stating their opposition and simply say, “Well, it’s now the law of the land, so as president I would pledge to enforce it.”

  • Clark35

    This is a wonderful thing, I’m happy about it.

  • jason smeds

    It’s embarrassing that a black judge (Clarence Thomas) would not side with freedom.

  • Giancarlo85

    @Maude: And you’re just a religious nut who sides with religious fundamentalists whenever you get a chance. Maybe you should cut out the self hating routine and get back to reality.

    @Shannon1981: As Cam has said… transparency isn’t really transgendered.

  • LadyL

    What an amazing day, what an amazing week, all in Pride Month, too! Cheers, everyone!!

  • martinbakman

    @jason smeds: Leave Uncle Thomas alone!

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: You sound just like those who, not too long ago, also “knew for a fact” that the world was flat and that the sun and planets revolved around it. I am not impressed by such facts.

    But we now don’t need to convince you that you are wrong. You and your in-bred, knuckle-dragging kin do not matter. The whole point of the SCOTUS decision is that our right to marry is no longer subject to your ignorance. So please feel free to continue to wallow in your self-inflicted stupidity. I couldn’t care less if I tried.

    As to our marriages being doomed, you are demonstrating again how clueless you are. So the population responsible for the shockingly high divorce rate to date is going to lecture others on marriage? Seriously? I don’t know whether that is more pathetic or hilarious.

    So you can keep your good luck for your own marriage (assuming you are ever capable of duping a woman into one). The “facts” are that there’s a 50/50 chance it will end in disaster and that’s without counting how much more likely it is once she wakes up and realizes what a sniveling buffoon you are. You’re the one who needs luck.

    But you won’t get that wish from me. All I wish for you is that you get what you deserve based on how you treat others. Karma’s a bitch and I hope you remember this exchange when it comes knocking.

  • Blazipitous

    Michael, for someone who doesn’t care, you sure went to a lot of trouble spewing all that gibberish. The “inbred” insult (as I use the term very loosely) is so typical of gay men, I knew it was coming. I’m from a bilingual family, so I’m pretty sure inbreeding is something your grandpa taught you and it runs in your family. It’s just too bad you can’t knock up a male person in your bloodline. You can still take his load up your loose rectal sphincter though, so don’t stop trying.

    I can “dupe” anyone into anything, Mikey. You wouldn’t know that though, so consider yourself lucky. I know how people think and I know how to channel their minds into thinking what I want them to. Maybe that’s why even as a young boy, any fight that ensued between my peers always had me as the common denominator and they only realise it now that we’re grown up. There are some things I concoct to which they’re completely oblivious. Yeah, I’m anything but your average young man. Getting a woman to marry me will be the easiest thing I’ll ever do. I’m graduating with a MB and I’m decent looking, so yeah. Eat that!

    I don’t need luck, bud. I make things happen ;)

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: You seem to be suffering from mental issues. You don’t have much logic to your arguments. And what is a bigot like you doing on a site like this one? Just trying to bring up a fight with your stupidity? Gay couples do show true love. You can either accept that fact or not. You seem to be subscribing to a lot of garbage.

    You are an illiterate, uneducated idiot. And that’s all I’ll say about you. All you talk about is anal sex because you don’t have a better argument. Many gay couples don’t even do anal sex.

    And I doubt any woman would want to marry a douchebag troll like you, a douchebag troll that goes to gay websites. You might want to question your own integrity.

    And your nonsense about a woman anchoring a man… is such bullshit. How has that been working out lately? With the divorce rates and everything? And the second, third and fourth marriages people do a lot these days?

    Go somewhere else right winger. We don’t need your ignorant ass on here. And graduating with an “MB” from what institution? ITT Tech? Didn’t you know they are under federal investigation? Your degree isn’t real.

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Giancarlo85: As usual, your comments regarding Blazzzz are spot on the mark! This nematode was/is a Kindergarten Kollege dropout/flunk out. It is no use arguing with specimens like Blazzzty! Trolls by the inch, they have no viable input to anything. As for his “degree, an MB,” that could only stand for “Mucho Bullshit!” The closest he ever got to a MD degree was when he visited his Psychiatrist. What a blowhard and blowoff, as in steam… a real joke! Keep up you investigation of MB= Moose Breath!

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: Do you have an actual argument to post? You seem to have some very demented opinions about gay people. What happened? Did you try to go on a date (or several) with guys and get rejected multiple times?

    I don’t even know why pathetic trolls like you come on here? What is your point and what are you trying to prove? You don’t prove anything to the gay people here. You only prove the fact that you’re a completely uneducated desperate idiot.

  • Blazipitous

    GianCrazy85, stop your obsession with me. It’s unhealthy. How many times have I ever spoken to you on this site? Exactly. You’re just not that exciting!

    Who cares what you think anyway? Definitely not me. Bahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: What obsession is that? I responded to your garbage that you posted. You’re the one that isn’t exciting. You’ll never have love in your life. You’ll be alone. Forever.

    And I don’t care to know what you think. I just know you’ll be miserable for the rest of your life.

  • Blazipitous

    I don’t argue with people I don’t know, you dumb
    c*nt. I aggravate them; make them breathe a little
    faster. Well, I’m illiterate but here we are, doing this
    in YOUR language. And by the way, I don’t have to
    convince you of anything. You’re a fucking cum dish
    and crybaby with a loose rectal sphincter, probably
    even HIV+. Also, if I have to hear “bigot” just one
    more time, I’m going to fucking eat this tiled floor.

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Blazipitous: ” Also, if I have to hear “bigot” just one
      more time, I’m going to fucking eat this tiled floor.”

      ROFLMBO!!! Start chomping, MB/MooseBreath! MB Degree?? Heh heh heh. Mucho Bullshit. And you had to go outside the USA to get someone to accept your app. Did you write it in Aramaic? or maybe Pig Latin? Now clear the blogs… we want/need only experienced, knowledgeable ‘humans’ on this site, thank you!

  • Blazipitous

    Strangely enough, I have a girlfriend. What do you have? I know. An HIv+ partner, and yeah, that’s just about it.

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: You can’t even post correctly. You’re a complete utter moron. That’s the problem. You need some sense knocked in your head. And your constant attacks and fixation on anal sex shows how much of a fucked up person you are. You do not have a girlfriend. And now you’re attacking people with HIV? I am negative. I’m healthy. It wouldn’t surprise me if you have it because HIV is spreading the fastest among heterosexuals.

  • Giancarlo85

    Why is a stupid right wing bigot with a “girlfriend” (blowup doll) doing on a gay website anyways?

  • Blazipitous

    How does one “post correctly”? I wasn’t aware there were rules. LOL! By the way, any adjective anyone uses to essentially mean “stupid” does nothing to me. That’s your own subjective take on it, and I’ll gracefully allow it.

    In case you haven’t noticed, I’m way too proud and naturally, I’ll be too proud to sleep with anything and everything that walks, and when I do find a guy (I’ve only been with two), I do the fucking and I wear a condom. I’m not sucking on anyone’s cheesy c_ck or even a shitty assh_ole. It would be a cold day in hell before I do that. Also, yapping on about a girl you’ll never meet is useless and makes us go around in circles. I’m not right-wing. I’m just realistic. You should try it instead of getting your fucked knickers in a twist every time has something to say. You just can’t stand someone voicing a dissenting opinion. Well, tough shit. You ain’t seen nothing yet!

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: You can’t even post a coherent fucking sentence. You are stupid. There is no other way to look at it.

    You are not proud of who you are. You are a dumb fuck homophobe who can’t even accept himself for the miserable disgrace he is. You’ll never find a girl. You are a useless human being. A wretched little runt with a huge chip on his shoulder. I take it nobody wanted you and accepted you. I don’t think girls or boys would want someone as pathetic and fucked up as you.

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: And you don’t have a dissenting opinion. You are a stupid fucking asshole who can’t handle a bit of criticism.

  • Blazipitous

    I’m pretty sure you can understand what I’m saying, so take the rest and shove it up your loose hole, you Aids-ridden c(u)nt.

    “I take it nobody wanted you and accepted you.” – and what makes you think your take is important? You’re just an old fart that nobody gives a shit about. I have my parents, my siblings and my friends. Oh yeah, and a girlfriend. Lol! Friends come and go, so meh! Who gives a fuck?! A boyfriend isn’t anything this young man is getting, at least not ever again. I won’t allow myself to become a caricature of a woman. It’s basic biology — dick in vagina. Get a biology textbook. How could I be homophobic? I’m on a fag site, aren’t I? I’m also sexually attracted to men, so …

    My inability to post “coherent sentences” on the Internet got me A’s in 3 different languages, math, science and allowed me to study Medicine. I’m proud of the man I’ve built of myself and I know my worth and what I’m capable of. I don’t need an old geezer’s wrinkled opinion on what pride is. I’m not fucked up and pathetic. I’m assertive and offensive. I exist to offend!

    For some reason you think “stupid” means “anyone who doesn’t agree with me”. Nobody can change me. And trust me, I know how to handle criticism. LOL ;)

  • Giancarlo85

    Oh here he goes again. Nobody wants you. Nobody will ever accept you. You’re the one with multiple STDs. It isn’t my fault your ass is a petridish.

    Have fun living in fantasy land. You don’t know anything about biology. You are definitely homophobic and a piece of shit.

    You are a nobody and you never will amount to anything.

  • Giancarlo85

    And usually someone who claims they aren’t fucked up and pathetic (as you have done), is even more fucked up and pathetic than first thought.

    Have fun living in fantasy land where you view yourself so highly.

    I’m not old. Do you even know how old I am? I bet not. You don’t have parents. They abandoned you. Your parents are drug users. Your siblings? You never had any because they ended up aborted. You were just an accident.

    You’re not young either. You must be in your late 40s.

  • Blazipitous

    That’s too disturbed to even laugh at. See? I make people lose themselves. My work here is done. Now I’ll gracefully walk away ^_^

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Blazipitous: You’re 22??? And you have all those “Degrees”??? ROFLMBO!!! NOW WE KNOW YOU’RE FULL OF bullshit! I had you pegged as a kindergarten dropout many comments ago! I was so spot on the mark! Don’t forget to kiss your blow-up dollie Good Night!

      PS: Three people, Michael, Giancarlo85, and myself have outed you and your IQ! Best quit while you’re waaaay behind, lolol.

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: So much for all that imaginary schooling you’re so proud of helping you actually read for content or form even a single coherent sentence! The only thing I said I didn’t care about was you wallowing in your own ignorance. I do care about the topic of this thread so calling you out on your ludicrous (and probably self-reflexive) claim that two men can’t love each other was no trouble at all! Just because you are limited in love doesn’t mean others are.

    As to you calling what I wrote gibberish, hello pot, meet kettle! Your posts are nothing but a river of irrational, non-sequiturs. (Go ahead little boy, look up the big word; I’ll wait.) Example: you being bilingual somehow means I’m inbred? How does that make any sense at all?

    Also, you should probably address your fixation with loads and male sphincters before using your dazzling intellect to dupe a woman into marrying you. Even if that will be easy for you, as you claim, she might not like it when she finds out.

    Next, you thinking you can dupe everyone is just another of your many delusions. I assure you that you cannot dupe me. Not here. Not in person. Not ever. You and your vacuous rantings are as transparent as the wind.

    Lastly, given the rather obvious patterns in your other bait-and-switch posts, before you claim I’m fixated on you (after 2 posts), please know 2 things: you really aren’t interesting enough to warrant fixation, and I really laugh when your ranting devolves into a torrent of foul language. It’s entertaining to imagine you, teeth clenched, waiving a fist and frothing at the mouth. Great fun! I know you won’t disappoint!

    But while you are writing that, please tell me again… Which one of us is “easily” manipulating the other? LOL!

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: Um, before you go run off with that small tail between your legs… you might want to tell the girl you are marrying that you have been fucked by dudes in your own ass. She might reconsider.

    Wait… I guess a blow-up doll won’t criticize you :)

  • Dakotahgeo

    @Giancarlo85: Relax… Blazzzty has been turned down by blow-up dolls! How embarrassing is THAT!!??

  • Blazipitous

    Too long, Michael. I didn’t read! If it looks to long, I read the first line and leave the rest.

    Gian…, I’ve NEVER been fucked in my ass. Hahahahahaha!!! I thought I should entertain this one before I exit “with my tail between my legs”. I’m turning 22 in a week, and I would have failed myself if I let a man penetrate my anus. I’d rather die than let that happen. I’d never degrade myself like that, not to mention the anus isn’t built for that (but I’ve fucked two guys). No wonder Aids is so rampant among fags. Oh well, what would you expect when you eat cum and shit for breakfast, lunch and dinner? Yeah, minute shit particles are always there even if looks “clean” to the eye! I’ve got way too much pride for that. Oh yeah, and there’s rectal prolapse. Enjoy that, fags!

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: A typical cop out of the weak minded. You are beyond pathetic. Was this too long for your room-temperature IQ?

    Moron.

  • Blazipitous

    I was about to go to bed, but that can wait.

    Michael, it just looked long and fucking boring, so that’s why I’m just brushing it aside. You can read my rants though. Are you mad that I’m not interested in yours? Tough shit! You’ll be strong!

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: No, I don’t care. The truth is out for others to read. Like you could make me mad. Again, you are beyond pathetic.

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: Usually those who claimed they are not a bottom as much as you, are total bottoms in real life. You shouldn’t be ashamed of your total bottom status. But how long did it take you to come up with that gem of a post? A good 20 minutes lol.

    A homophobic ashamed bottom boy who can’t accept himself… what else is new? And you’re not 22. You’re more like 42 wishing you were 22.

  • Blazipitous

    Mikey, that’s your opinion. Again, I don’t care about your opinion.

    Gian…, you do know a lot of people also use WhatsApp, Facebook etc., right? As for bottoming, I’m not going to delve any further into that. I know what I accept and what I reject, so keep on telling yourself that. Meh! Why do you reject the FACT that I’m 22? Are you jealous of my youth? Get real, man. I know it’s probably tough being old, saggy and grey, but what can you do? Just accept it!

  • Blazipitous

    Dakota, you’re a fucking moron. I said I’ll be graduating next year, as this is my final year. I didn’t write in Chinese or Swahili, did I?

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Blazipitous: “I’ll be graduating next year, as this is my final year.” And you have all those “Degrees,” LOLOL. If I’m a moron, that makes YOU several levels below the ground. I have two Masters Degrees and 8 credits toward a Doctorate. You wanna brag some more, kollege nerd? C’mon, c’mon… you’re wasting our time here, boi! (You have enough trouble with English, silly guy!).

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: Blazi, that brings us full circle then. You have identified what an opinion is v. what a fact is. Bravo! Perhaps you aren’t as stupid as you appear.

    Now with that new understanding your claim that two men cannot love each other is YOUR opinion. It is not fact.

    It’s great that you’ve made some progress today!

  • Blazipitous

    Nature vs nurture. Rarely is it ever nature!

  • Blazipitous

    Funny enough I’ve annihilated all the “English” kids in their own language throughout my life, and I’m pursuing a degree in my third language. Um… Yeah, I think I have more than enough reasons to be proud of myself!

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: If their “annihilations” were as meandering as what we’ve witnessed from you today I suspect their memories of the events are rather different from yours.

    But your continued self-pleasuring delusions don’t cost me anything so have at it!

  • Blazipitous

    And an MB is A degree — singular. Not “all those degrees”!

  • Blazipitous

    Again, Mikey, I don’t see why I should anonymously lie to people I don’t know. Also, I’m pretty sure they and I remember the same thing. Hahaha! My self-pleasuring delusions are a reality, while the only thing real in your life is poppers and taking anonymous loads up your ass. Lol!

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: That’s an excellent question. I assume it’s because you have nothing truthful to say. And again, you are “sure” of things that are not true and fabricated.

    Your fixation with loads in the ass says rather more about you, however. But that’s been plain from the start.

  • Blazipitous

    Lol! Honestly though, I don’t lie to people I don’t know. Only those I do! I just think it’s funny that most of you honestly allow guys to ejaculate in your rectums. It’s just so funny. Does it drip out?

  • Michael

    @Blazipitous: And to yourself, it seems.

    Most of whom? I don’t do that. Your fixation on ejaculating in rectums is disturbing. Have you ever sought counseling to get past it?

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Michael: Michael, most people(in Blazzzy’s case I use that word lightly) who are in desperate need of counseling rarely seek it because they fear their own self and the hidden knowledge of WHO and WHAT they really are. While in Seminary and Christian service, we were REQUIRED to have our own therapist for our own good and that of our congregations. As a result, I was able to teach and preach for almost 50 years without any incidents on my record! So it seems that therapy as needed idn’t hurt me one bit. I see very foreboding signs in Blazzzypoo’s life that are going to put him in danger when he gets out in life, no matter how many or few languages he speaks. He will run into people who are bi- or trilingual who will nail him on the spot. I can only wish Blazzzy the best of luck and Godspeed in life because he most certainly is going to need it… A LOT of it!
      George M Melby, M.Div. Pastor/Hospice-Hospital Chaplain; B.Sci.MusicEd. with a Triple Major in Pipe Organ, Choral, and Instrumental Music!

  • Blazipitous

    The shrink would throw me out within the first 10 minutes of meeting, so no. And no, I’m not obsessed with it. It just started coming (excuse the pun) to my mind just on this comment section. I’m just curious!

  • Dakotahgeo

    @Glücklich: That’s what I thought too… still wet behind the ears with no chance of finding a towel!

  • Dakotahgeo

    @Michael: Personally, I think Blazzypoo is in love with his ass… there’s nothing else about him for him to love. :-(

  • Glücklich

    @Dakotahgeo:
    Can’t you almost hear Cho Seung-Hui’s flat affect or Elliot Rodger’s delusional anger? If there’s a bowl cut in the mix run like the wind.

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Glücklich: Y’all got THAT right! I found a neat little quote today that cuts to the quick: “I don’t blame Christians. I blame Stupid. Which sadly is a much more popular religion these days.”

  • Dakotahgeo

    @Blazipitous: Your THIRD language??? Myyyy, I’m impressed–NOT! Try English, German, Spanish, Portugues, GREEK, HEBREW, annnnd a smattering of Latin. This tells me your MB Degree really boils down to “o movimento do intestino,” which translates into… (wait for it!)… Bowel Movement! Congratulations!

  • Blazipitous

    LMAO! That’s just crazy. I don’t get nailed, especially not in person. It just doesn’t happen that way. If you met me, you’d know why. And no, I’m not aggressive, but that won’t fly here. If having an MB translates into “bowel movement”, then the only academic achievement is having an engineering degree or something I haven’t heard of yet. I’m proud of what I’ve been able to achieve at THIS age. You won’t shoot this one down even if you tried!

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Blazipitous: Nothing to shoot down, really. You’re just ONE of millions who have a “Degree.” Good luck with that argument, Sweet cheeks!

  • Giancarlo85

    Guys, ignore him. he is ashamed of being gay and even more ashamed of being a total bottom. As far as his education and so called “degree”, it is irrelevant. The for profit college, where he received his worthless diploma from, is under federal investigation. His degree is from a degree mill as I called it. It isn’t worth the paper it is printed on.

    And he is fixated on anal sex, which tells me he can’t get enough of being fucked by random dudes. He is a total bottom no matter how much he wants to deny that fact.

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Giancarlo85: I think we finally shook the twit, Blazzzy, off. He’s lost in his own world of spin. Good riddance to trailer trash!

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: Pursuing a degree in language? Why? Don’t you realize the unemployment rates related to language degrees? Maybe you should take a degree in Pashtun and fuck off to Afghanistan.

    By the way, I have both a B.A. and M.A. Degree and that was quite recent. I’m not old at all. Still get carded at clubs lol.

  • Blazipitous

    You didn’t shake me, Dako. I fell asleep! By simply saying “MB”, I thought it would it be easier to catch on. Gian…, no, I’m not doing a degree in ANY language. I’m doing the final year of my MBChB (Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery).

    • Dakotahgeo

      @Giancarlo85: OOOOoooo… This sounds scary… Blazzzzy with sharp instruments. I wouldn’t trust him with plastic tableware! And he isn’t learning a new language of medical terminology during his college years?? I’m not sure even a Oxford Dictionary would would help Blazzzyboi much! More tripe!

  • Blazipitous

    “… he wants to deny that fact.”

    “fact”. LOL!

  • Blazipitous

    Yeah, me and sharp instruments. Be very afraid! I don’t really need an Oxford Dictionary (even though I have it), because rarely do I speak English. Even on Facebook, I haven’t posted in English in over a year, so … Anyway, I’m exhausted. I need to sleep and study, so I’ll leave you to your, well, Latin, Spanish etc.

  • Giancarlo85

    He is still posting? What a shocker. Again, studying for a degree from a degree mill is a waste of time. I think he is going for one of those medical coding six month degrees lol.

    You have to show some pity. The idiot probably has $40,000+ in loans from a for profit. Those for profit colleges aren’t even accredited. His degree is about as useless as soiled diapers.

  • Blazipitous

    Well, lucky for me I’m in a university :p

  • Giancarlo85

    @Blazipitous: Keep on dreaming!!!

  • Blazipitous

    And keep on consoling yourself ;)

  • Dakotahgeo

    @Giancarlo85: This reprobate keeps arguing with himself and STILL loses. Now THAT’s scary! ;-)

  • Blazipitous

    Argue? Meh! You’re not that important to me, you know. I only argue with people I care about. Not some Aids-ridden faggots on Queerty.

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