Tom Daley recently sat down with The Guardian to promote his upcoming self-help book, Tom’s Daily Goals, 

The 24 year-old diving champ chatted with the newspaper about everything from coming out, to meeting his husband, to becoming a dad.

Check out the highlights…

On coming out:

Journalists always asked: “Do you have a girlfriend?” And I always said: “No, diving’s my No. 1. I never said: “No, I don’t have a girlfriend but I’m looking for one.” And then someone asked: “Do you ever wonder why people think you’re gay?” And I said something like: “Maybe because I spend half my time half naked,” thinking: “They can think whatever they like, what does it matter?” But then the next day, headlines were all: “Tom Daley is not gay.” And that’s what sparked it [coming out]. Because I was not having people thinking I’d been lying.

On falling head-over-heels in love with Dustin Lance Black:

It was a real love-at-first-sight thing. But then I had to come back to England so we were just talking on the phone or WhatsApp or whatever. Then he came over eight weeks later. The first night, I took him to meet my friends and said: “This is my boyfriend.” The next night we went on our first date. The next night he asked me to be his boyfriend. The night after that, after a couple of lychee martinis, he told me he loved me. He extended his trip, we were already talking about babies and weddings. So that was in the first week. It was weird. But now it’s five years later.

On becoming a dad:

I’ve been shopping for baby clothes for six years, since before I met Lance, since I was 17 or 18. There’s nothing I’ve ever been more sure of in my life than having a family. One of the things I was so mortified about, so upset about, when I came out, was that I’d never be able to have a family. But then obviously I did more research. Because there’s something so special about passing on what my parents have taught me to children of my own.

Related: Tom Daley reacts to his very nude portrait

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