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Back To School: 10 Essential Items Every Gay Guy Must Bring To College

pillow-fightIt’s that time of year again. The start of the new academic year. All across the country, young men and women are kissing their high school sweethearts goodbye and heading off to college, where they will embark on the best and simultaneously worst four years of their lives.

Leaving for university can be both an exciting and a scary time, but it’s a necessary rite of passage most young people make sooner or later. Earlier this summer, video blogger David Levitz offered his advice on how to be gay in college. We thought we’d add our own two cents by compiling a list of necessary items every gay man should bring with him to his dorm.

Scroll down for 10 essentials you definitely don’t want to forget this school year…

enhanced-30915-1398117079-27Shower sandals

You are about to share a bathroom with straight dudes. While that may sound hot, the reality is somewhat different. As you will soon learn, the washroom habits of heterosexual males can be alarming at best and downright frightening at worst. Dorm bathrooms are crawling with all sorts of unspeakable things, so a pair of shower sandals are an absolute must. You will wear them at all times when in the bathroom. We repeat: You will wear them at all times.


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Headphones

As fun as dorm life can be, there will be moments when all you want is to be by yourself and block out the heavy metal preferences of your next door neighbor, but it will be impossible because you’re living in a communal residence hall. They will also come in handy when you want to watch gay porn on your computer without your roommate hearing.

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Sweatpants

A pair of fashionable sweats are an absolute must. They’re nice to curl up in at night, but are also easy to throw on in the morning when you’re running late for class. And, depending on how well you rock, you may even be able to pull off wearing them to a house party. Believe it or not, there will come a day when you can no longer get away with wearing sweatpants (at least not in public). Enjoy the perks being gay and young while you can.

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A cellphone stocked with all the latest gay apps

Congratulations! If you are in college it means you are likely 18 years or older, which means you’ve finally reached the age required to create a Grindr profile. So what are you waiting for? Sometimes it can be tricky locating other gay people, especially if you go to a big school and you need them zero feet away just when you need it. Apps like Grindr take away the guessing game that can go badly wrong in the age of “spornosexuals”. They make finding like-minded men as easy as they will likely be once you’ve actually located them. And contrary to popular belief, you don’t necessarily need to hook up. You can use the apps simply to make new friends in a time when having a solid social circle is more important than getting laid. Although college sex can be great fun, too. (It can also be good for your mental health.)

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Extra sheets (in addition to your extra sheets)

Speaking of college sex… Most people recommend bringing two sets of sheets. You might even want to splurge on a third. The truth is your sheets will very likely be getting a lot of, um, use, and not just for sex. If we remember correctly, sleeping actually may be the #1 collegiate pastime.

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The perfect pillow

While we’re on the subject of bedding, dorm room mattresses are notoriously uncomfortable. To make up for this, consider investing in a nice pillow. And by “investing” we mean actually investing. (No cheap $5 pillows from Target.) $40 or $50 may seem like a lot to drop on a single pillow, but the long-term luxury it will provide will be well worth the dough. Not only will your pillow offer you a soft place to rest your weary head, but it can also serve as something to snuggle up with on those lonesome evenings when your head is stuck in a book.

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Hangover relief

If sleeping is the #1 collegiate pastime, then partying is the #2. Keeping a well-stocked supply of hangover remedies (Ibuprofen, Alka-seltzer, etc.) will ensure that your Saturday night is just as lively as your Friday night was.

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A shower caddy

These babies make running to the shower (in your shower sandals!) so much easier. No need to worry about fumbling with shampoo bottles or accidentally dropping your luffa on the hallway floor that only gets vacuumed twice a month. All you have to do is grab your caddy and go. Your products (which are no doubt far superior to and more expensive than your straight roomie’s) are neatly contained and easily accessible. Just be sure to get a waterproof shower caddy that dries quickly so it doesn’t slime up on you.

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Lube

Condoms are one of the easiest things to locate on a college campus, second only to beer and marijuana. Unless you’re attending a conservative Christian university, where even hetero “premarital sex” is considered sin, Health Services will provide you with enough free condoms to last a lifetime. What they probably won’t supply, however, is lube. So bring plenty of the condom compatible, water-based variety with you. In fact, you might consider investing in a jumbo-sized bottle that will last you through the school year. (Or at least first semester.)

Antibacterial wipes

Last but certainly not least are antibacterial wipes. Many dorm rooms are not equipped with sinks. A container of Wet Ones are handy for any number of sticky situations.

By:           Graham Gremore
On:           Sep 1, 2014
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  • 11 Comments
    • sickranium
      sickranium

      What’s wrong with heavy metal preferences, when it comes to music? There are those among us who would gladly hack themselves unconscious to block out Madonna, Britney and the rest of the garbage in your average gay guy’s heavy rotation playlist….

      Sep 1, 2014 at 7:08 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • kyler09
      kyler09

      “the washroom habits of heterosexual males”, rly. Being gay or straight now has something to do with how many times you shower?! Bahh, I spot reading right there just so I won’t have a brain aneurism

      Sep 1, 2014 at 12:36 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Gusteau
      Gusteau

      Wearing Sweatpants to class? To a party? No thank you, Mam, unless it is a theme party of course. Good list though.

      Sep 1, 2014 at 1:36 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Bopper1
      Bopper1

      …a brain?…

      Sep 1, 2014 at 3:20 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Ridpathos
      Ridpathos

      Eh. I was boring in college. Never partied. Never lived in a dorm, just an apartment with a lame roommate, and pretty much never slept with anyone until the very very tail end of my senior year, who was my boyfriend that I currently have been dating the past 5 years.

      That’s not to say I took my studies that seriously either which is my biggest regret. Wish I could redo college.

      Sep 1, 2014 at 4:49 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • DonW
      DonW

      @Ridpathos: The kind of slutty, party-hardy college experience this article is taking for granted is highly overrated. Get your degree and on a good career track, avoid HIV and drugs, and you’ll have a lot more fun in the long run, and it will even last past age 30.

      Sep 1, 2014 at 5:48 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • stranded
      stranded

      @Gusteau: I was thinking the same thing. Sweatpants are big no no. I noticed students who live in dorms tend to look more messy than those who commute. I commuted so i was always showered and dressed, then again i went to UCLA where everyone was showered and dressed reasonably well.

      Sep 1, 2014 at 6:09 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • NG22
      NG22

      I agree that sweatpants aren’t great for outside use — unless you’re exercising. I was quite stylish in college, and it made a good impression. But I did go to school in New York, so that’s part of it. I do like most of the list, though. This is very useful information. I hope there are college kids on the site to take advantage of the advice.

      Sep 1, 2014 at 7:16 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Tom
      Tom

      Gun Oil will leave hand prints on the walls.

      Sep 1, 2014 at 11:24 pm · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • lykeitiz
      lykeitiz

      @sickranium: Agreed! My own lifelong love for rock has made musical discussions with other gay men pretty much non-existent, but I won’t ever change!

      Sep 2, 2014 at 3:47 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·
    • Gusteau
      Gusteau

      Well, as long as the style of music is not reflected in through clothes or fashion it usually doesn’t really matter which songs you listen too. Unless you bother the crap out of me by having one song on repeat the whole day long >:(

      Sep 2, 2014 at 6:15 am · @ReplyReply to this comment ·

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