“I get this question a lot. I’ve never been a bunk bed kinda guy, I like king-sized beds, I like queen-sized beds. But for real, all jokes aside, with this top and bottom sh*t in the gay community, it has become a huge form of misogyny, and it’s like how you n*ggas misogynists? You’re all gay, you’re f*ggots. We’re all f*ggots.”–“Montero” singer Lil Nas X, shutting down fans who want to know if he prefers to top or bottom. In an Instagram Q&A, the singer also revealed that he’s only recently started dating. He also admits that his lack of dating experience convinced him to just date casually for the moment, without looking for a long-term relationship.
Daniel M
100% This.
tjack47
This is truth.
Mack
Whatever floats your boat. Nobody’s business except who you sleep with.
Donston
This “top” and “bottom” obsession shit is indeed archaic and sometimes misogynistic/about fem-shaming. While most dudes only really want to know so they can imagine you topping them or so they can shame you for taking dick. Also, that’s some personal shit. I don’t know why folks on the internet feel comfortable constantly asking “queer” males that type of shit.
Folks are just incredibly basic. You don’t know about being “verse”? You don’t know that some “gays” aren’t into anal play at all? You don’t know that some dudes (most of whom aren’t inherently homosexual) are more into same-sex attention, passions, affections, affirmation, love than they are into intercourse or even sexual behaviors in general? Folks just need to stop being basic and stop having these basic ass questions for “queers”.
Fahd
How does he do that effect with the lighting?
Leash
That’s a filter for instagram, but I don’t know which one exactely. You can search for filters by opening your instagram story, choosing any filter and click on “browse effects” to search for “sparkle” or “glitter”
Dymension
What. Ever. The only one who needs answering to the top/bottom question is the person you are planning to bed. I might need a little itch scratched and I want to know if the guy I want to bed is up to the job, or interested.
Wheelerman
Good answer.
Let this kid alone.
Troyfight
…exactly…. admittedly, my pervy side does want to know, but …. need to leave him and others alone about this.
Kangol2
He’s dreamy and always so real. Teach ’em, Lil Nas X.
Jack Meoff
If only he could have answered that without using the words ni@@@rs and fa@@@ts it would have more impact.
Abraxas020
Seems like every generation has reclaimed the derogatory terms of the past.
lykeitiz
Once you’ve twerked Satan, it opens you up for questions.
rallidriver
it’s not the public’s business. On that note, this dude’s song SUCKS. The only reason anyone is talking about it is due to the video.
Donston
The song is catchy to some degree. And worse songs have been hits. Lil Nas X is charming enough, knows how to check people, isn’t out here being a messy clout-chaser and attention whore, isn’t afraid to genuinely attack hate and prejudice, and is unapologetically “queer” and unabashedly into his sex (which is difficult for even many “out” dudes who are public figures). But I do wish that he had some actual talent.
Tom M
Adorable young lil Dude, having his moment. Great to see.