This just in: Bisexual men make the best lovers… At least, according to heterosexual women.
A new study has found that bi guys are some of the most sexually attentive and emotionally available men out there.
The study was led by Dr. Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli at the Deakin School of Health and Social Development in Australia. 78 women, ranging from ages 16 to 65 years, participated in the survey. They all came from a variety of cultural, sexual, and geographical backgrounds, but they each had one thing in common: they had all been in a serious romantic relationship with at least one bisexual man at some point in their lives.
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“These mixed-orientation relationships, or what I call MOREs, sit outside the boundaries of what many may consider a ‘normal’ relationship, whether it’s straight or gay,” Pallotta-Chiarolli said. “What the research has shown is that they are very real and valid and deserve our attention, support and understanding.”
In her research, Pallotta-Charolli observed that the majority of women considered their bisexual partners to be more sexually attentive and emotionally available. Many of the women also said they thought the men made better fathers, as well.
“It is my hope that we can stop presenting only the stereotypical story about MOREs: that all bisexual men are untrustworthy and have secret affairs; that all bisexual men transmit HIV and STI to women; that all bisexual men are abusive to their women partners,” Pallotta-Charolli said.
She continued, “While we found these issues are certainly out there and we don’t shy away from discussing them, we need to lift the stigma for the women who choose to be in relationships with bisexual men.”
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The research will appear in Pallotta-Charolli’s forthcoming book, Women In Relationships with Bisexual Men – Bi Men By Women, which she hopes will help end the negative stereotypes that surround bisexual men.
What do you think? Have you ever been with a bi guy? Do they make better lovers? Share you experiences in the comments below.
h/t: Gay Star News
Prinny
Yawn
IDoNotHaveToAgreeWithYou
It’s called overcompensation. It doesn’t last. And they suck dick as bad as straight boys do.
Tobi
Oi, h/t: ME!!! https://www.queerty.com/rogue-two-britney-spears-lifetime-biopic-not-performers-blessing-20160825#comment-1151852
Bauhaus
I enjoy bi guys but prefer gay men.
Heywood Jablowme
I’m glad those women in Australia have that attitude about bi guys. That’s nice. But personally, I’m sorry, I could still never kiss a guy who might have been eating p**sy last week. Ew.
He BGB
Soneone who enjoys eating p***y and sucking d**k is just weird. I knew a guy like that once and he must have been a sex addict if such a thing exists. He liked to brag that he wouldn’t let anyone but the best do him which kinda makes sense if you have that option.
Bauhaus
@He BGB:
It’s not weird for bisexuals.
robho3
Why must some of you people on here be so judgemental? People should be with whoever they want to be with. If you don’t like the bi sexual then don’t be with one -simple as that.
BigG
I highly disagree I’ve been with many bisexuals in my life and I will tell you that they are not that good in bed. 99% of them say they don’t kiss , but they’ll suck a dick and bottom in two seconds. Sex with a gay man is much better. More passionate. A lot of bisexual men tend to like one sex more than the other. Iit seems the more masculine, they don’t kiss, the more feminine they lean more towards men. It’s never true 50/50 equal attraction to both sexes with bi men.
Give me a gay man any day over a bi. At least I know they’ll be passion involved and I might get a good BJ because gay men know what they’re doing
Jack Meoff
@robho3: Despite what guys write on here odds are they would still drop to their knees if some married bi guy offered up the goods.
michael
Have been sexually intimate with three bisexual men in my life – and was with each of them multiple times. All three leaned much more toward the hetero side of the spectrum (I am also rather masculne, but openly 100% gay.) One of the three enjoyed me topping him. But, gotta agree with some of the posters above, all three were def below average with both kissing and giving head.
Alistair Wiseman
This may make interesting reading for some, but when it comes to gay men there is a flaw in their study. They are asking the wrong question.
They are asking straight women about the love making capabilities of bisexual men. Why is that relevant to gay men? Ask gay men about the love making capabilities of bisexual men. Great question for women, but irrelevant to the love capabilities between a gay male and a bisexual male.
I don’t think most gay men would be surprised to learn that bisexual men are better lovers to women than their straight counterparts.
Record Man
I remember a bisexual guy I fooled around with when I was younger. He used to like having me call him at his office in the late afternoon, and talk sexy to him while his clueless wife stood a few feet away. At first it was kinda fun, but I got to thinking about how she’s going to feel when she eventually finds out, so I broke it off.
My bi guy was a lousy lay; he gave terrible head and needed lessons on how to kiss properly.
broadshoulder
Who by? heterosexuasl women? What use is that to us?
Give us what gay people think and I might pay attention?
SumSay
Your anecdotal experiences have been noted.
Masc Pride
There could be some truth to this, but it’s too small of a “study”. I find her reasons for the research along with the fact that it was conducted by a woman and focused on women far more interesting. I think a lot of women, particularly millennials, are getting more comfortable with dating openly bisexual men. I’ve definitely noticed a change in my experiences with women through the years. There’s more of an openness, almost nonchalant.
For all you bitter queens asking why this is of relevance here, remember that B in LGBT? It stands for BISEXUAL. *gasp*
Josh447
As a bi guy whose first love was another bi guy, I can attest they are great lovers, and so are gay guys, and so are women.
As a bi guy, I have the opportunity to know both sides of the coin so I would say that would be an advantage sociologically, but not regarding anatomical sex and sensuality. In that I’ve not experienced any difference.
Jack Meoff
Most bi men skew more towards the straight world and only fool around with guys on the side. In my experience they treat men in a much more disposable manner and on the DL so they can still enjoy their straight privilege. As sexual partners for men they tend to be rushed and selfish and dismissive. They may be better lovers for women but, I don’t know. Give me a passionate gay man any day.
jdboston617
78 female only participants is not a study. It’s a conversation.
Daggerman
…I don’t believe this, your survey is a crock of s**t, because how can you possibly find out something like, who’s better in the sack and who’s gonna tell the truth? Listen, most men like sex with other men, but just can’t admit it–or won’t and are even too scared to have it, or possibly too ugly…secondly there might well be a load of guys who can pleasure other guys that are strictly GAY but are far too embarrassed to admit it or talk about it so your survey is just somewhat unreliable.
etseq
This was basically a press release for a book by a bisexual activist using her meager academic credentials to boost her credibility. The “study” was not randomly sampled nor was any attempt made to make the sample diverse, it was only straight (or maybe bi) women so men, especially gay men were excluded and there was no control group. She basically asked 78 women leading/irrelevant questions and not surprisingly got the result she wanted.
There has been a lot of this PR generated pro-bisexual (and usually anti-gay) propaganda and pseudo-studies flooding the media lately…
Mykaels
What should she do? How about: become an independent, emotionally stable, secure, confident woman, who relies on herself for fulfillment and not anyone else. Upon doing that, you will then grow up and realize him having sex with someone else does not matter, and that she will either love him for him or move on.
Mykaels
Damnit, sorry, wrong post, lol
ErikO
@Jack Meoff: A lot of gay men are closeted, and the majority of gay men even out gay men just want a hook up, and want to move onto the next man or group of men.
ErikO
@IDoNotHaveToAgreeWithYou: No guy that’s hetero has sex with other men. Get over your worship or silly pipe dream about being with a hetero guy.
kent25
LMAO!!!! Who in the HELL wrote this? they have to be Bisexual. I seriously Doubt this. lol Bad sales job lol Best lovers for whom?
kent25
I don’t get it, if they are such great lover to women why in the Hell would they want a man? lol They sound greedy and promiscuous . And women wonder how they get HIV