Ex-soldier and gay-for-pay adult film star Daniel McGraffin says his girlfriend is totally fine with him having sex with other dudes on camera because he makes $1000 for only “a few hours work.”
“My sexual identity is straight, one hundred per cert straight,” he tells the U.K.’s Channel 5 documentary The Sex Business: Swinging Both Ways.
McGraffin, who goes by the stage name Geordie Jackson, says he fell into gay adult entertainment a few years ago after burning out at his job working at a military prison.
“I was in the artillery for six years, it was decided from when I was a kid,” he explains. “I just knew I was going in the army.”
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But long hours led to “barely any sleep,” which led to McGraffin having a mental breakdown of sorts. After being let go from that job, he worked a few odd jobs before stumbling into porn.
“When I was working as a DJ, there was a fan of mine, a girl, who worked as a dominatrix. She tells me about this guy, she says he’s ‘totally straight but does gay porn’. This is a low-budget British company. The guy rings us and says, ‘the majority of it’s fake.’”
Eventually, he signed a three-year contact with Lucas Entertainment and now, he says, he’s making the big bucks.
“I ain’t smart, academically. It’s either this or going to work in a warehouse, ’cause I have no qualifications,” he says. “You need to make your money, man. I’m glad I found porn because I make more money now than I ever have.”
“I did look into straight porn, in gay porn there’s way less competition, and there’s no money in straight porn. Lucas Entertainment are the biggest gay porn company in the world. For a straight guy, there’s way more money in gay porn.”
And then there is Freya, McGraffin’s long-term girlfriend. She says she’s not bothered by people thinking her boyfriend is gay because “it’s fake” and “When he gets back (from a shoot), he doesn’t want to think about anyone with a d*ck.”
Asked whether she feels at all threatened by her boyfriend’s line of work and Freya says, “If it was straight porn, he would be attracted to the people he was working with … but that risk isn’t there because it’s full of men that he doesn’t think are fit.”
“People can sit at home and think he’s gay, but he’s not, so whatever.”
McGraffin says he takes it as a compliment when people think he’s gay because it means he’s doing a good job.
“People outside the industry think I must be gay,” he says. “They don’t know the tricks of the trade. They say ‘you look like you’re enjoying it’. And I say, ‘thanks, that means I’m a good actor.'”
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Nice body, butter face…..
ShiningSex
yeah, the face is not cute.
baal61
Who cares?
Rock-N-RollHS
so don’t sleep with him. lol. Personally, I think he’s quite hot.
but, really, now, the b.s. people tell themselves. There are a lot of part-time jobs and work out there, esp for white “str8” former military guys. Hey, there’s always bartending, waiting tables, personal training, etc. This crap about having gay sex as the only thing available to put food on the table. B.S.
Guy can’t admit he enjoys some part of it: the attention; the great head; the male physical connection. But ya are blanche, ya are!
banditboy
So he’s just told everyone he is not gay and he’s not enjoying it. It’s all just fake. Why would I want to watch someone have sex who is just faking it. People who pay money to watch this idiot are idiots themselves.
Catholicslutbox
LE likes to lie about a model’s hiv status, and often pairs neg with poz. i hope he’s aware of that.
Vince
Oh waaa..he had a breakdown because he could handle working a regular job.
Another reason I’m not into the gay for pay porn. Most of it’s fake enough.
ShiningSex
nothing fake about sticking your d*ck in another man. nothing straight about it either.
dannyboi2
hahaha, Funny Fonsi…
Granny Spoth
You have to be a tad bit biologically bisexual to do that, which is totally fine.
He even admits he has an attraction to fit guys. “but that risk isn’t there because it’s full of men that he doesn’t think are fit.”
I have no problem with calling him straight if that’s how he socially identifies.
There are different levels of sexual orientations: biological, behavioral, and social.
controversial2019
As a Brit I’m not sure I can interpret ‘it’s full of men who doesn’t think are fit’ as meaning there are SOME men he finds fit. To me it says he doesn’t find men fit at all.
ShiningSex
Gay for pay actors identify as straight to make money. He’s bi. End of discussion.
The “grey” areas of sexuality is being bi. You like a person depending on who they are not gender. That’s bi.
McJuvenal
is that true?
ShiningSex
100% straight? 100%bullsh*t.
A lot of “bi” men doing gay porn claim to be gay for pay. YOU’RE HAVING SEX WITH A MAN. How straight is that? It’s the easiest way to claim being straight and yet have sex with men. You get to “satisfy” your desires and get paid doing so.
Gay for pay is a joke.
enlightenone
One that anyone can see right through if you have half a brain. This “girlfriend” is proof! But then again, a lot of females suffer from low self esteem sadly.
enlightenone
He may be “acting,” but his body is NOT!!!!
jerryw242
If he’s working for Lucas, that must mean he can piss on cue. That’s a talent.
da90027
No one makes that much in porn these days and if he does get that he won’t for long. Gay for pay men lack passion and chemistry in their scenes total turnoff. At least he is aware he is not bright. Most wouldn’t.
rustyiam
It’s almost cute that they think people care! Oh and those hideous tats , especially the neck one , just sealed your fate as a lifelong warehouse worker!
frankcar1965
Nobody but TRASH and Gay for Pay have neck and face Tats. That says it all.
Gilliflower
Being in the trans community I’m totally OK with self identification. otoh I think Kinsey might have a little to say about where he fits into the scale, going by his “interest” level of his little friend.
justgeo
NOTHING special shulda save the ink cost in a retirement act.
Bytemenow
Fake sex? Women can fake orgasms. Men either cum or not. Penetration can’t be faked. You know if you’re inside someone or if someone is inside of you.
Sure honey, if you need to tell yourself that gay for pay is fake sex, you do what you have to do to get by.
piriblue
If he keeps going back then he enjoys it. His girlfriend doesn’t mind since it brings
money. And they call that love.
Genderswag
Hello,
As a crisis counselor for suicidal prevention, addiction and mental illness, I feel that this couple demonstrates an extremely negative public influence on the LGBTQ community.
Everyday – thousands of LGBTQ people deal with the pain, discrimination and violent atrocities attached to being LGBTQ as well as the stigma faced by those of us who are still closeted.
What this couple is saying is exploitive to the max and dangerously affirmative of the long-standing religious and social myth that being LGBTQ is a “choice”.
This engages the stereotype and reinforces the lockdown on Anti-LGBTQ people worldwide and condones LGBTQ hate crime and self- hatred and fear for LGBTQ.
I also feel that LGBTQ people need to make more progressive decisions in regard to who we celebrate within our LGBTQ consumer circles.
To me – just because he’s hot shouldn’t make him automatically marketable for the well balance treatment of our LGBTQ community.
Clarence Johnson
Genderswag Equality
Genderswag Media LLC
frankcar1965
Thank you so much for being a sane port in all this bi, fluid, pan B.S. If you fuuck a guy or get fuuked by a guy or suck on a guy, you are GAY. And bi is just the stop on the way to gay eventually. Nobody makes a choice and this makes us all look like idiots.
Donston
frankcar1965. Orientation is indeed not a choice. Where you are on the gender, romantic, sexual, emotional, relationship spectrum is not a choice. Whether you contend with fluidity at a certain point in your life or throughout your life is not a choice. But coming out is a choice. Who you have sex with is a choice. Who you have relationships with is a choice. What identities you embrace or do not embrace is a choice. These are all things we need to start understanding and being okay with.
The funny thing is that it’s often been the guys who most hype up of being “straight”, who most look to promote being into girls and hype up having girlfriends that later go on to claim “confusions” or later reveal that they’re a lot less straight/hetero than they once presented. I can immediately recall four guys who once hyped up being “gay4pay” and “straight” and used having girlfriends and not being into guys as a way to market themselves and to get some mainstream attention. All those guys later revealed that they aren’t conventionally heterosexual and has contended with fluidity/confusions/internalized homophobia. A couple of them have admitted to having overall romantic/sexual/affection/relationship leanings and comfort not towards cis women. Ultimately, if we stop hyping up sex and identity so much and embrace the spectrum, the reality of experimentation, and the reality of fluidity a lot of this type of sensationalism and straight/hetero/hetero-leaning worship would die down.
dannyboi2
It takes all kinds, we need to live and let live. They may not be your version of Normal or Perfect but in their world, they seem to be happy at least in front and they are united. How long will it last nobody knows but if it does or doesn’t it should not matter. They still fall as part of the LGBTQ community, we need to be inclusive, understanding and most of all tolerant. We all like it or not can and have been exploitive. lots of us take jobs we don’t take pride or like but we do it and we try our best at it. His just happens to be gay sex, he may tire of it or start his own company and hire others like him. The bottom line he’s happy and as long as he doesn’t hurt anyone so be it.
TimothyBeauchamp
“Gay for Pay”… Is that the same as “Gay for Beer?”
TimothyBeauchamp
You gotta be a little bi to do “gay for pay.” 100% straight means no sex with dudes… ever.
nitejonboy
I have no problems believing that he is straight.. a dick will respond to stimulation no matter who’s doing it, he can be looking at video of straight sex before shooting his scene, it can be playing just off camera, there are a lot of tricks straight actors use to perform in gay sex scenes..and I think he has a cute face, my issue is those disgusting tattoos he’s ruined his body with. I couldn’t watch him perform while covered in those, sorry man.
Cam
“””I have no problems believing that he is straight.. a dick will respond to stimulation no matter who’s doing it, “””
Except if that were true then people wouldn’t be attracted to types. Sorry but if somebody is gay and there is an old woman grabbing their crotch…no, it’s not going to respond. This guy is responding.
DarkZephyr
I have never seen him before but if I ever come across his work, it won’t be a turn on for me now. I don’t wanna hear about how much he hates his job and how “not fit” he sees his co-stars. Next.
winemaker
This ‘bloke’ is ok’ looking but has too much ink. if it wasn’t for the ‘tats’ he’d be gorgeous, just my opinion. if he’s smart, he’ll bank most of the money, If he’s really earning $1000.00 per day he’s doing things straight guys wouldn’t do, period., Gee where do I apply for a job like this? I’m good looking and don’t make near that kind of money on a daily basis, and I have a professional business background. He needs to realize this is quick money, it’s not guaranteed this will last and realizing this, needs to save most of this for the future. Porn is fickle, what’s hot today might not be tomorrow, be wise!
just me
More a case of being Buy-sexual than bisexual…
michel_banen
He makes a good living, she doesn’t mind and enough people obviously want to see his videos. Well, that’s a happy ending in multiple ways 🙂
Garth
So it’s her love of his wallet that keeps them together.
McJuvenal
Sure, you’re right
Donston
It’s kinda weird and borderline homophobic how mainstream and non-gay media only really seems to care about the gay porn industry when it involves gay4pay and straight identifying performers. So many of these “straight” and gay4pay identifying sex workers have used those identities to get interviews in popular publications or to appear in documentaries or appear on talk shows. While a good amount of those guys go on to later reveal that they’re not 100% straight and heterosexual after all or have experienced some type of fluidity or confusions. So, they use faags for money and as a stepping stone to try and net mainstream attention and use their identities and their girlfriends to stand-out from the “basic gays”. Then when a lot of the hype has died down they frequently reveal that the being entirely straight and hetero when it comes to the romantic, sexual, affection, relationship spectrum was a bit of a lie. Ultimately, I’m tired of being told us “queers” need to focus on the sex industry, but I’m particularly tired of the sensationalism and the attention behind dudes who claim they’re not all that into dudes (or into dudes at all) but are willing to have sex with them. This whole routine has been going on for decades. And yet, when it comes to the straight porn industry no dude will even publicly admit to being just a little bit into guys yet alone embrace a gay identity and publicly flaunt his boyfriend. You put it all together and it feels like a bunch of people supporting and profiting off of internalized homophobia, gay shaming, homo inferiority and straight worshiping/superiority. Why are we constantly told by the media that we need to care about supposedly gay4pay sex workers or dudes who aren’t that into dudes and told that these dudes are more worthy of mainstream attention?
johnnymcmxxx
Gay for pay is okay with me.
Mark Allen
You know I was married to a woman and had kids but I’m gay. So why can’t a guy who has sex with other guys be straight? And I don’t understand how this is detrimental to GLBT youth. The man is honestly saying he is an actor. He is playing a role. It’s make believe so a certain type of gay man can fantasize about him. How is this harmful to anyone?
Donston
I don’t see men who have sex with men for whatever reasons but consider themselves to be “straight” as harmful. I don’t even find it fascinating. You ultimately can’t control anyone’s identity. Trying to do so is just going to lead to frustrations and will lead to you looking like an a-hole. Just like you can’t control who someone has sex with or who they have relationships with or where they are on the general spectrum. I do think it’s corny and borderline harmful how dudes like Graham seem hyper obsessed with guys in hetero relationships or who claim to be “straight” yet have sex with guys. We’ve all heard of “gay4pay”. It’s been hyped up for decades. We all know there are men who have relationships with whoever or identify as whatever yet will have sex with a variety of folks. We keep being presented with this stuff as if it’s groundbreaking or shocking. And it’s not. None of this is “progressive” or revolutionary. At this point it’s just feeling like the fetishism of identity and the worshiping of straight-identifying/hetero-leaning men. That feeds into homo inferiority, and that is indeed harmful.
MrMichaelJ
Sorry but if he didn’t suck a d!ck way before he got into porn WITHOUT getting paid for it then you can go ahead and chop my d!ck off. What irks me is in today’s world being a whore who prostitutes themselves instead of actually getting a real job pales in comparison to how horrible it is to be a man who has sex with other men.
batesmotel
Except that this guy is making more than the average person who is either unemployed unable to find a job in this economy or they’re working in a corporate job that kills off their life force and doesn’t pay nearly enough, then you get laid off after many years because the company can’t afford it. Someone can say that he won’t have that when his looks fade, but neither will anyone else working at other jobs.
Donston
There are plenty of homosexual males who have had sex with women. There are plenty of guys with overall romantic/sexual/affection/emotional/relationship preferences or ambitions towards their sex but have had or still have sex with women. There are likely many dudes on the straight side of pornography who have sex with guys off camera for money and/or enjoyment. Hell, there’s probably a handful of guys in straight porn who are overall homo-leaning. I’m trying to figure out why there’s still such an obsession with “gay4pay” and the fetishizing of gay4pay, straight or bi identities and why we’re still so focused on men who are in a relationship with a female but having sex with dudes. It’s an old story that’s been told many times. And only guys like Graham seem to give it much weight any longer or view it as something sensational.
Oranos
Agreed, Donston.
Donston
A ton of porn performers have already talked about dudes on the straight side having sex with guys off camera or even being homo-leaning and have boyfriends. Yet, the mainstream media only seems to want to highlight “gay4pay” performers in gay porn. It’s a tired story. And at this point it honestly just feels like people using homo behaviors as sensationalism, and it feeds into homophobia, internalized homophobia, hetero/hetero-leaning worship and homo shame or having overall homo-leaning preferences and ambitions shame. While prostitution in general is not a new invention. And I know a handful of people who will allow their partners to have sex with whoever to get the bills paid. It’s time the media moves on from this obsession.
radiooutmike
It’s just sensationalism.
A REAL heterosexual male would never to be able to have sex with a man. But this “straight” guy, who always mentions his orientation; is able to have sex with men for the money. So, that is what makes it odd.
If you notice coverage by straight media of this, the media always accept the assumption that the man is straight. Look, he does it for money. Hey, he has a girlfriend (he’s one of us)!
Donston
I don’t begrudge a guy seeing himself as “straight” but having sex with dudes for whatever reasons. Plenty of dudes claim “gay” but they’re not really and truly homosexual. If a guy has overall hetero-leaning preferences and ambitions then I don’t see why he can’t claim “straight”. “Straight” doesn’t have to mean “hetero”. Just like “gay” doesn’t have to mean “homo”. It’s the using being “straight” but having sex with guys as a way to market yourself, as a way to get some mainstream attention, and as a way to promote hetero worship and non-homo superiority that I find problematic. While the media’s continuous indulging of this sensationalism is even more problematic. Prostitution is not some new invention. Neither is having sex with dudes while maintaining a wife/gf.
Ultimately, if you ask the majority of these “straight” guys if they’ve ever had any attractions towards dudes, if they’ve enjoyed sex with men, if they have some type of sexual and/or romantic affections towards men you’d more often get a nuanced view of why they see themselves as “straight”. Many of these guys seem to think, “Aye, I got a gf and I like pvssy and dudes don’t immediately get me hard most of the time. So, I must be straight”. But often times they enjoy sexually engaging with guys, enjoy same-sex general affections and sometimes have same-sex romantic passions and emotional dependence and greater relationship contentment towards their gender. But even if a dude is 100% hetero in every way but sexually engaging with men it’s just not newsworthy any longer.
sanfranca1
Women can fake an orgasm. Men cannot fake an erection. Period!
Gay for pay men are not totally straight.
Donston
We make too big of a deal over what guys can get an erection for. Some sexually sensitive men can get hard by anything or anyone touching their penis. While many “queers” have issues with getting or maintaining an erection with anyone. There’s also plenty of dudes who can get hard for women but wouldn’t consider themselves “straight”, and some would even consider themselves homosexual. There are guys who can get more easily aroused for women than men but they still have overall homo-leaning preferences and contentment. An erection by itself does not reflect attractions, sexual enjoyment, sexual passions, sexual preferences, affections, comfort, romantic passions, relationship contentment. And there is fluffing, porn, pills, injections and your imagination that help with erection. Many porn performers and sex workers use those things.
I do agree that many if not most of these “straight” and “gay4pay” guys are not legitimately and 100% straight and heterosexual. But I don’t care about identity or sexual behaviors outside of people using identities and sexual behaviors to promote hetero/bi fetishism and superiority, or to demean, or to manipulate, or for self-marketing. That is kind of what this guy is doing, which is why I find it a bit problematic.
batesmotel
Yes they can with sex pills, which many of those porn actors take to get it up day after day. It’s still work that you’re getting paid for and you have to do whatever you have to get it up. They also have fluffers to helps on set.
Kieran
If he’s so straight why doesn’t he do straight porn? That way he could get paid AND enjoy what he’s doing. If you’re getting aroused being naked and having sex with other naked men, I’m not buying that you’re “100% straight”.
batesmotel
Because straight porn isn’t looking for good looking guys. Most porn is bought and watched by men. Especially men that can’t get someone. So for straight porn they want men that are less than desirable with a hot chick to fulfill the fantasy for straight guys that can’t get anyone. That’s why good looking straight guys tend to do gay porn. It’s also more in demand and they get paid more and more accolades.
Donston
From what I can tell the straight side of porn seems to be hiring a lot of pretty boys lately. And there also seems to be a desire for straight porn to appeal to women and gay dudes. So, I wouldn’t say male looks don’t matter on the straight side. Perhaps the money is slightly worse, and there’s not as many spots for males. But in general, porn performers don’t seem to be making what they used to. Being willing to do a ton of scenes and have sex with anyone as well as escorting appears to be the only way to make legit and consistent cash. And that’s including the gay side of things.
radiooutmike
Well, straight porn does not pay heterosexual men well. There is always is willing men.
Sister Bertha Bedderthanyu
If he says he’s getting $1k per day then who are we to argue? Personally at that rate I think the studio is overpaying. He looks too old for that type of rate.
enlightenone
The “1,000” dollar-a-day gay-for-pay madam – no cover letter or resume required. Not bad?
RandomGuy
The fact that he went into porn after suffering a mental breakdown is more proof that most porn performers have psychological issues.
brahbate
They both look and act like common trailer trash.
Cam
Considering how many porn actors seem to lie about being straight…..why is there an article on yet ANOTHER actor who sleeps with dozens of guys (Gets hard, has orgasms etc….) yet claims he’s straight?
This article seems like it could have been written ages ago.
Donston
That’s the thing. Mainstream media only seems to care about the gay porn industry when it involves a dude who claims to be “straight” and who parades around his gf or constantly talks about how into chicks he is. Otherwise, non-gay media couldn’t care less about gay porn. There’s been a decent amount of these guys who have used their “straightness” to get some mainstream press. It’s an opportunity to get your name and face out there and perhaps up your prices. And it’s also an opportunity to let the world know how not gay you are. But really, the gay4pay story was old even a decade ago. That’s partly because so many of those dudes have already used it to get on talk shows or get interviews and so many have either quickly disappeared or went on to later admit that they’re not particularly heterosexual in every way. But also, like, who cares if a dude says he’s “straight” but is prostituting himself out to dudes? It’s not fascinating or shocking. This isn’t the 90s anymore.
Oranos
Well, the Greek men – in the old days – had sex with each other. It was the role of the older man to school the younger man in the ways of art, battle and Life.
And many, MANY men have gotten married to women and slept with them for 30, 40, 50 years. Does having sex with a woman make a gay man straight? No. That’s where the emotions come in. Pleasure is easy to come by: sex with someone of your own gender is a rite of passage for a great many teenage boys. Are THEY gay, too? Circle jerks, sucking a best friend at 15. THAT’S GAY?!?!?
In any case, it is their life. Allow them to live it as they wish, just as you want to be able to live yours without being harassed.
TxCudlr
This is “THE” BIGGEST & most STUPIDEST thing I have ever in my life heard or read!!!!!!!!!!!! FREAKING STRAIGHT, MY BUTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! At the VERY least, this deceiving & lying “actor” is Bi. If he & his equally stupid & ignorant girlfriend believe what they think & say, then THEY deserve each other!!!!!!!!!!!! Who wants to place their bets now as to how long this SHAM will last???? I give it 6-8 months from now, that we WILL be reading about this supposedly straight (but is Bi) “actor” being single, free, & available!!! Then 6 months later, we WILL read about him & a male co-(straight??) actor falling in love & becoming a couple; but yet, THEY ARE STRAIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DarthKitsune
*SIGH* Another guy who’s forced to declare himself sooooooo straight, I’m tired of these G4P people parading around the fact that they are using gay men for their money, while claiming to get no pleasure from it, claiming to be 100% straight, making sure you know that they don’t enjoy it and that if it weren’t for the money they’d never look at a guy. ‘OMG Ewwwww another man’s body, I hate this so much! I’m straight and I hate this but the money is sooooo good. Run me my money homo.’ FOH with this bullshit. I don’t support gay for pay porn actors, no matter how hot the guy is.
wellinmysoul
G4P actors usually are the hottest…. sissy queen twinks and over-groomed professional homosexuals are not attractive at all.
ncdavid
I just went to the Lucas website and it appears he has 12 available scenes. At $1,000 each, he’s made $12,000! That’s quite a career he’s got going.
vbnudeguy
I didn’t want to comment on this because it doesn’t affect me at all but I can’t help myself. You don’t have to be “gay” to put your d**k into someone’s butt however, at the very least, you have to be OK with the idea. So maybe not gay but not 100% straight. I find it offensive and concerning that he felt the need to declare how much he loves his GF and how straight he is and how fake the sex is. Just enjoy the sex and the fact that you’re getting paid for it. Just say “yeah it’s cool that I f****d that guy and made him blow a load.” Get over yourself! There’s nothing wrong with sex work or acting in porn films and there’s nothing wrong with dudes screwing dudes or girls screwing girls or any combination in between.