Stepping out on a movie date this weekend? Netflix and chillin? Whatever your entertainment needs, we got your back (and hopefully your mind) with Queerty’s weekly “Culture Club” column with some of the highlights of new releases, streaming shows, classics worth revisiting, and what to drink while you watch.
The Step Out: I’m Gonna Make You Love Me
A plot description of I’m Gonna Make you Love Me makes it sound like the most anti-transgender movie since Sleepaway Camp: a man transitions to womanhood, then back to being a man again. In reality, the new documentary by director Karen Bernstein instead paints a portrait of homophobia at its most savage: Brian, the subject of the film, spent years thinking he was a woman because he couldn’t accept himself as a gay man, and because he saw more career opportunities as a woman. Only the dysphoria he experienced as a woman forced him to reexamine his own gender. I’m Gonna Make You Love Me will dumbfound people inside and outside the queer community with its bizarre story, which somehow manages to be hilarious and heartbreaking at the same time.
Premieres in New York November 7. Additional rollout to follow in select theatres.
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The Catch: His Dark Materials
Fantasy doesn’t get much better than His Dark Materials, the HBO adaptation of the popular novel trilogy by Phillip Pullman. The story…well, it’s hard to explain. In part, it focuses on a young orphan girl named Lyra (Dafne Keen, of Logan) who uncovers a sinister conspiracy when several of her friends go missing. Lyra herself becomes the target of a Vatican-like organization known as the Magisterium after she discovers her abducted friends are somehow linked to exploration of parallel universes. It’s that kind of series.
His Dark Materials features beautiful production design and fine performances, led by young Keen. Ruth Wilson, James McAvoy and Lin-Manuel Miranda also star. Though at first glance, His Dark Materials might not seem to have much in the way of queer content, trust us. We’ve read the books. When the gay angels show up ready to battle…well, again, we don’t want to give too much away. But yes, it’s that kind of show.
Airs Mondays on HBO. Also streams on HBO Go.
The Grab: Spirited Away
Speaking of fantasy, another masterpiece from animator Hayao Miyazaki gets the special edition Blu-Ray treatment, courtesy of the cinephiles at Shout Factory. This new edition features a special edition of the soundtrack as well, along with a special booklet featuring concept, behind the scenes anecdotes and articles by leading film critics like Leonard Maltin. The story itself follows a young girl named Chihiro who becomes captured by a witch and forced to work in her bathhouse (no, not that kind of bathhouse). It’s a fairy tale coming-of-age story, one in which Chihiro must ultimately decide the kind of person she wants to be. Queer audiences will, no doubt, identify with subplots about forbidden love and finding the authentic self. All audiences will be enchanted by its animation and nuanced storytelling.
Available from Shout Factory November 12.
The Nibbles: Insomnia
A reader tipped us off to this new, limited web series from writer/star Vishaal Reddy. Insomnia follows a bisexual writer turned hooker named Nikhil, an Indian-American man depressed by the state of his life. Who wouldn’t be? Prostitution tends in impede on Nikhil’s dating life, as does his emotionally manipulative aunt. Despite the existential dread the premise suggests, Insomnia finds a hearty dose of laughs and sexuality to keep things entertaining, and Reddy injects Nikhil with enough charm and vulnerability to keep him relatable, even at his most neurotic.
Streams free on YouTube.
The Local: The Great Leap
Out actor BD Wong (Law & Order: SVU, Jurassic World) plops into the director’s chair for this drama at the Pasadena Playhouse. The Great Leap concerns a Chinese-American culture clash as embodied by a basketball game. A pair of coaches—one Chinese, one American—who reunite after years apart on the eve of a China vs. America game. As the pressures to win mount, both men examine their own life choices and the cultural norms that helped shape them. Wong created the role of one of the coaches in the original Broadway production (in which he earned glowing reviews, as per usual), thus his coaching of the new cast represents a homecoming of sorts.
Runs November 6-December 1 at the Pasadena Playhouse.
The Read: A Song For You
Robin Crawford, long rumored as the lesbian lover of musical icon Whitney Houston, finally speaks in this much-anticipated memoir. First things first: Crawford does confirm that she had a romantic sexual relationship with Houston until industry pressures—not to mention Houston’s beast of a mom, Cissy—drove the pair apart. Crawford also spills the T on Houston’s drug use, her marriage to Bobby Brown (with whom Crawford often clashed) and all the other behind-the-scenes craziness that led to Houston’s untimely death in 2012. Far from a gossip rag, A Song For You is a burning candle for a lost love…one which so many of us share.
Available in bookstores November 8.
The Sip: Black Russian
With the flavor of dark materials still in our mouths, this week we also suggest a cocktail of dark materials for sipping pleasure. The black Russian infuses the taste of coffee with vodka for a savory and delicious drink. That’s great for dessert. As a variation, add a bit of whipped cream or ice cream for extra flavor.
- 1.5 ounces vodka
- 3/4 ounce Kahlua, or other coffee-flavored liqueur
Mix over ice in a glass. Stir well.
JromeGervais09
I am from Seattle and am gay. In the 1970s I met a bartender at a gay bar on lower 3rd Ave who looked like a guy. However, she was TFM. She started out as a women living as a heterosexual female with 3 children and married. She was a niece of mobster Frank Colacurcio in Seattle, WA. She then divorce her husband when she came out as a lesbian. She then had many girlfriends over several years. She then wanted to have the complete sex change with penis and all to a man. I was a laboratory technologist and she needed syringes to start her injections of testosterone. I showed her how to use the tiny insulin syringes and gave her a few injections in her thigh of testosterone to show her how to do it. Well, that is not the end. Once she had the vaginal surgery to create a penis, she still dated women for a while as a TFM, having sex with both straight and gay women. Then he decided that he actually was a gay man. So then he started dating gay men. He eventually married a very big drag queen from Vancouver, BC, Canada and they now live around Green Lake in Seattle. This person has been every combination of gender having sex with multiple different genders. Hollywood would not believe this, but it is as true as God is my witness. His name is Deno and his boyfriend’s drag name is Charity. It won’t take much research among the old Seattle Gay crowd to vet this story. It would make a great film and startle the public more than the story above even though that story is strange. Deno’s and Charity’s is much more complex.
JromeGervais09
So to sum up, Deno was a female having sex with a male and bore 3 children. Became a lesbian having sex with women. Then, became a surgical TFM having sex with straight and gay women with a functioning penis. Then later decided that he was actually a gay man and began having sex with gay men. Did that cover it all? Deno has been a gay and straight women and a gay and straight man and then FTM.
iron
lf you were to make a movie, maybe a documentary with various stages of events (lots of actors create employment) you put the words together now put the charactors in each event. ethnicity. be kind of a challenge finding the volunteers keep in touch