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Queerty’s licensed mental health professional helps readers navigate questions related to relationship dynamics, sex, gay culture, and more, all through a lens of releasing shame and living authentically.
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I’m a college professor who saw my “straight” PhD candidate at a men’s spa. How should I handle it?
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Help! My boyfriend always wants to hook up in my childhood bed whenever we go home for the holidays
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My boyfriend is taking cosplay too far. How do I get a handle on this?
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My sister is exploiting our gay DINK lifestyle to pay for her kids. Am I a bad guncle if I say no?
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“Locktober” has me obsessed with chastity cages. Will locking myself up set me free?
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I snooped in my BF’s browser history & learned he’s obsessed with gay ghostface porn. Is this OK?
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Help! I’m going broke buying up tickets to Madonna’s Celebration Tour but I can’t stop
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My boyfriend constantly lusts after my straight brother & it’s becoming a problem
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I have a sex fantasy where I’m kidnapped & held captive by masked men. Do I need help?
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I found my husband’s secret social media account, and I’m shocked at what he’s up to
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My boss claims to be an “ally” but also calls me her “little princess”. How do I handle this?
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I make sure I’m “ready” any time a maintenance guy or delivery man comes over. Am I insane?
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My friends think I’m a “power gay”, but it’s all a sham. Is it too late to change my ways?
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I recently learned my ex is into a bizarre fetish. How am I supposed to take this?
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My boyfriend’s actual dad was my “daddy” for one night three years ago & now I feel like a bad boy
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I’m 95% sure I saw my boyfriend on Sniffies. Should I confront him?
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My sister-in-law keeps demanding to know if I’m a top or a bottom and it’s getting weird
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I’m about to turn 50 & I’m still single. Did I miss out on something really special?
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Turns out my steam room dalliance is in a relationship with a woman. Do I need to bolt now?
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My FWB wants me to engage in “brother role play.” Am I wrong to entertain it?
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Our best man once slept with my fiancé. Should I kick him out of the wedding party?
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My creepy roommate is “doing things” in my bed. How do I confront him?
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